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    Sorry but this is a bit of a long one:

    1. I am an 18 year old lad, I am starting Leeds Met in September but I am a virgin. Now to some of you this may be a problem or no big deal at all.....for me it's more of a matter of being scared in the Uni environment. From past experiences I found that not a lot of girls like virgin guys (it's more the other way round, guys like virgin girls). It's not as if I haven't had opportunities before: nearly lost it in Year 7 (she said she wasn't ready not long after penetration, say a few seconds), got asked to do it at a wake (turned down due to occasion) etc so turned down for good reasons. The other reason I am scared is that I am what you would call a nice-guy but I'm dirty minded, but the dirty mindedness is more of a bravado thing to cover up my insecurities at being a virgin (if that makes sense) I have recently been friend-zoned by 4 people, had my heart broken by 2 and I'm just worried that it will just repeat at Uni :/

    2. Second issue (well sort of), at an applicant day I got talking to a lovely young lady. Now I got her Facebook and Number but she lives far away (will be on campus for the year). Now she really is beautiful and I would love to try build something between us but I'm unsure of how to get across my intentions without scaring her or ruining this basic "friendship" thing :/

    Any advice please?
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    I wouldn't be so worried about it, it's not exactly something you tell people anyway, who's going to know? Not that it's such a big deal anyway. Just go to uni, meet a crapload of new people and have a good time!

    As for this other bird, you've got her number right? Drop her a text, see how she's doing and if she's going to be in the area ask her out, not got much to loose mate!
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    What course or subject area are you doing?
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    PM if you want
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    Year 7? What on earth?
 
 
 
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