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    Sorry but this is a bit of a long one:

    1. I am an 18 year old lad, I am starting Leeds Met in September but I am a virgin. Now to some of you this may be a problem or no big deal at all.....for me it's more of a matter of being scared in the Uni environment. From past experiences I found that not a lot of girls like virgin guys (it's more the other way round, guys like virgin girls). It's not as if I haven't had opportunities before: nearly lost it in Year 7 (she said she wasn't ready not long after penetration, say a few seconds), got asked to do it at a wake (turned down due to occasion) etc so turned down for good reasons. The other reason I am scared is that I am what you would call a nice-guy but I'm dirty minded, but the dirty mindedness is more of a bravado thing to cover up my insecurities at being a virgin (if that makes sense) I have recently been friend-zoned by 4 people, had my heart broken by 2 and I'm just worried that it will just repeat at Uni :/

    2. Second issue (well sort of), at an applicant day I got talking to a lovely young lady. Now I got her Facebook and Number but she lives far away (will be on campus for the year). Now she really is beautiful and I would love to try build something between us but I'm unsure of how to get across my intentions without scaring her or ruining this basic "friendship" thing :/

    Any advice please?

    I wouldn't be so worried about it, it's not exactly something you tell people anyway, who's going to know? Not that it's such a big deal anyway. Just go to uni, meet a crapload of new people and have a good time!

    As for this other bird, you've got her number right? Drop her a text, see how she's doing and if she's going to be in the area ask her out, not got much to loose mate!

    What course or subject area are you doing?

    PM if you want

    Year 7? What on earth?
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