So, a lot of things have happened the past couple of weeks. Ex girlfriend, who I thought there was a chance we'd get back together said she wanted to be friends. I tried to be her friend but there was this issue that she was being half hearted about it because she said if we had alcohol together things would happen. I said it wasn't fair and said I wanted her out my life. Then an issue arose with my brother and I turned to her. This wasn't fair because it brought back memories of past issues with her and her family and I messed up her head. She said she couldn't be my friend either and didn't want to. Then a girl I went on a date with went crazy and started pestering me all the time and emailed my ex. My ex told her to leave me alone but she kept on and on. My ex reported her to the police and if she contacts either of us again the police will speak to her.
My parents don't want to talk about the issue with my brother, my brother is okay now but am still worried about him and have no one to turn to because it's like a family secret. The only person I can talk to is my ex. But I can't because of what she said.
It's all a big mess at the moment, and am not dealing with anything very well and dunno what to do.
Not dealing with stuff well watch
- Thread Starter
- 24-03-2013 16:08
- 24-03-2013 17:05
well obviously your ex is out of the question and pursuing that possibility is only going to hurt both of you. have you got anyone else to talk to?. If you tell your parents how you feel do you think they would be more willing to discuss things?
If you really can't talk to anyone try seeing someone about counselling.
I mean..you could always find someone on here that you can talk to. completely unbiased and just willing to listen