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    My boyfriend masturbates himself. He says that our sex life is irregular and unpredictable and he just wants something regular and consistent What is your opinion on this? Baring in mind i was a virgin when i met him and still figuring myself out?
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    A lot of guys like to have a constant and regular sexual relationship. not because they're sex maniacs, but because it can hel their mood and keep them motivated. My fiance occassionally mastubates and we have sex about 3 or 4 times a week. sometimes its nice just to revisit some little 'me' time
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    He is cheating on you with his hand. :teehee:
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    Masturbation is a pretty regular thing for guys, even if they're in a relationship. It's not exactly a big deal, he's not cheating on you, he's just getting himself off. It's something that he's done since he was probably about 12, so you can't blame him for quitting cold turkey. And honestly, if you don't have similar sex drives (he wants it more than you), can you blame him for masturbating? The only time I imagine this could become an issue is if he's masturbating so often that he no longer wants sex, and let's be real, that ain't gonna happen.

    Don't be a ball and chain, let him touch his own junk.
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    (Original post by canadamoose)
    Masturbation is a pretty regular thing for guys, even if they're in a relationship. It's not exactly a big deal, he's not cheating on you, he's just getting himself off. It's something that he's done since he was probably about 12, so you can't blame him for quitting cold turkey. And honestly, if you don't have similar sex drives (he wants it more than you), can you blame him for masturbating? The only time I imagine this could become an issue is if he's masturbating so often that he no longer wants sex, and let's be real, that ain't gonna happen.

    Don't be a ball and chain, let him touch his own junk.
    I think the problem for girls is more in watching porn rather than the masturbating itself. Though I don't know if this is the case with the OP and I agree with your post.
 
 
 
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