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    I was having a think about something that once happened. The exact background is a complicated, but basically, I can remember essentially telling a girl I would like to be more than friends with her.

    She said she wouldn't go out with me, giving a list of specific reasons, basically things that would be obstacles.

    It doesn't really matter now what happened, but I was thinking about this and I can't help but help but feeling her giving logical reasons, 3 in fact, all of which were genuine and significant obstacles to anything happening, might have been a strong indicator that she did definitely like me, and quite likely had there not been these obstacles I would have had every chance with her. There was no talk of her feelings.

    I just wondering what people think on the basis purely of the information I have given.
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    I was having a think about something that once happened. The exact background is a complicated, but basically, I can remember essentially telling a girl I would like to be more than friends with her.

    She said she wouldn't go out with me, giving a list of specific reasons, basically things that would be obstacles.

    It doesn't really matter now what happened, but I was thinking about this and I can't help but help but feeling her giving logical reasons, 3 in fact, all of which were genuine and significant obstacles to anything happening, might have been a strong indicator that she did definitely like me, and quite likely had there not been these obstacles I would have had every chance with her. There was no talk of her feelings.

    I just wondering what people think on the basis purely of the information I have given.
    I don't know it could have either meant that she was making up excuses because she just genuinely wasn't interested, or like you said she might have liked you and gave it a go without the obstacles.
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    Let me tell you this much, there was a while I had not made any moves because of circumstance making it a very risky thing to do, by time I felt I could make a move, she had a got a BF, that was one of the 3 reasons.

    To be honest, I know there was a time when she most definitely liked me, but like I was thinking, and I kind of wondered whether she still liked me, we were quite friendly at the time in any case.

    I think her getting a BF might have even been a reaction because of timing to me making her think by mistake I was non available.
 
 
 
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