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    Hi all

    I have a crush on a male work mate if you like even though I'm only one day Into the job. I met him on my interview and had a good chat with him. Then today I wanted to see him but didn't until I was leaving and he gave me the biggest friendliest 'hello' I've possible ever had and locked eye contact I want to get to know him better. I'm a manager of sorts so know have to tred carefully etc. what shud I do?


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    Is this wrong or worth persuing?


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    (Original post by mickiship2012)
    Hi all

    I have a crush on a male work mate if you like even though I'm only one day Into the job. I met him on my interview and had a good chat with him. Then today I wanted to see him but didn't until I was leaving and he gave me the biggest friendliest 'hello' I've possible ever had and locked eye contact I want to get to know him better. I'm a manager of sorts so know have to tred carefully etc. what shud I do?


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    Bang him.
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    (Original post by The Mad Dog)
    Bang him.
    Yeah that's the plan?


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    Is he gay/does he know you're gay. He might just be being friendly so don't get too attached as you might get your heart broken. Get to know him first and take things slow, maybe ask him to hang out in a couple of weeks with other people.

    I hope it works out for you
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    How friendly WAS the hello?


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    I'm bi no he does not know as only spoke to him in interview. He was just very friendly today almost as if he was pleased to see me.

    Thank you really want it too.


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    Very friendly was not the usual hello if you were too see someone you know. Maybe focusing on nothing but just want to know what to do.


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    Just be careful and don't ruin future relationship as a colleague. Just don't go straight away with 'Oh hey, I have a crush on you' because you might just scare him away.
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    ...especially if he's not into guys.
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    Oh well turns out he got a girlfriend who he been with for 7 months and there's a 5 year age gap. Brilliant. Classic sign of I want never gets.


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