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    So i'm going on a date with a girl on friday.

    We used to talk from time to time but she recently confesed that she is attracted to me. So I asked her out for a meal.

    Shes way out of my league and im crap with girls.

    Any advice.
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    Make sure you've read the news for back-up conversation xD
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    Have you decided on where your going? And man, if she confessed to liking you then who gives a **** about if she's out of your league!!! just go with it.... I would suggest to not try to hard but be a gentleman... Something else is to not blow this out of proportion, if it goes really well or down the drain bad, it's only 1 date, you will have more chances! (hopefully).
    Good luck! :awesome:
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    Rule no 1.

    Talk to her like she's a friend, not an alien. Take this as a chance to get to know her.

    Rule no 2.

    It's okay to be a bit nervous, it's better to mention this rather than put on a show of false confidence. Nervousness can be kinda cute. Plus she agreed on a date so you already know that she likes you.

    Rule no 3.

    Go with the flow. Physically, expect nothing.


    EDIT: When desperate, watch Hitch :top:
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    Be yourself, relax and try not to think that she's 'out of your league' - you want to seem confident in yourself
    Personally I think the best approach is to not take the whole thing too seriously, things go wrong when you overthink them.

    Good luck!
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    I don't expect any hugs or kisses for at least 5 dates.
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    (Original post by K2RS)
    I don't expect any hugs or kisses for at least 5 dates.
    I know he said 'expect nothing', but that's too much.

    If it goes well, you'll probably be balls deep in her on your next date.
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    (Original post by fudgemuffins)
    I know he said 'expect nothing', but that's too much.

    If it goes well, you'll probably be balls deep in her on your next date.
    This is the best post I've ever read on tsr


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    (Original post by K2RS)
    I don't expect any hugs or kisses for at least 5 dates.
    Wow. Gentleman. I've never had a boy wait longer than five dates...EVER! She's a lucky girl


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    (Original post by fudgemuffins)
    I know he said 'expect nothing', but that's too much.

    If it goes well, you'll probably be balls deep in her on your next date.
    I wouldnt want to anyway.
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    (Original post by K2RS)
    My penis was removed after an infection when I was younger, so i dont think thatll happen
    but you still have balls, right?
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    (Original post by fudgemuffins)
    but you still have balls, right?
    Yes.
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    You're already miles ahead of most on here, well played. Relax, have fun.
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    (Original post by fudgemuffins)
    but you still have balls, right?
    Im just kidding tho dude.

    But im not really like that.

    If she offered i woukdnt.
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    (Original post by K2RS)
    Im just kidding tho dude.

    But im not really like that.

    If she offered i woukdnt.
    Why would you joke about something like that? That's sick.

    I hope she rejects you now.
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    (Original post by fudgemuffins)
    Why would you joke about something like that? That's sick.

    I hope she rejects you now.
    I know. I really believed that too


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    (Original post by K2RS)
    I don't expect any hugs or kisses for at least 5 dates.
    Errr... what?

    By the sounds of it along with other posts you don't plan to kiss for as stated the first 5 dates which I would class as a drastic mistake. Of course don't expect her to make the move of kiss or hugging. Nonetheless at the end you probably want to go for a semi hug and kiss depending on how well the date goes.

    Anyway, what sort of transportation are you using?
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    (Original post by Zurvan)
    Errr... what?

    By the sounds of it along with other posts you don't plan to kiss for as stated the first 5 dates which I would class as a drastic mistake. Of course don't expect her to make the move of kiss or hugging. Nonetheless at the end you probably want to go for a semi hug and kiss depending on how well the date goes.

    Anyway, what sort of transportation are you using?
    Well Im 16 so I cant drive. Bus / Taxi.
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    Let's be honest.

    First dates/relationships usually end up being a learning experience ( aka a disaster)

    Don't be too over sexual.

    At the same time that does not mean, do not touch her for the first 5 dates.
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    (Original post by hollywoodbudgie)
    Rule no 1.

    Talk to her like she's a friend, not an alien. Take this as a chance to get to know her.

    Rule no 2.

    It's okay to be a bit nervous, it's better to mention this rather than put on a show of false confidence. Nervousness can be kinda cute. Plus she agreed on a date so you already know that she likes you.

    Rule no 3.

    Go with the flow. Physically, expect nothing.


    EDIT: When desperate, watch Hitch :top:
    Reminded me of Newton's 3 laws of physics!

    Great advice though - I'm a big fan of keeping things simple.
 
 
 
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