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    So i split up with my Girlfriend a day ago... I ended it, because i felt i had lost the attraction and was becoming less interested.

    I mentioned to her that i wouldn't be trying to find anyone quickly, because at the moment i'm not well enough and wouldn't want to be that superficial person.

    Today, she tells me she is meeting another guy next week?

    This hasn't sat well with me and i feel a bit hurt tbh.

    Does this mean do you think i still have feelings for her?

    or as i am edging towards

    She is being disrespectful?
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    She's probably just trying to distract herself from you and if she's moving on that fast it's probably on the rebound or in attempt to win you over. You probably do still like her, but if the attraction is gone then there's no point clinging on. You'll get over the feeling of sadness when you hear she is with someone else soon enough.
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    (Original post by tashazzz)
    She's probably just trying to distract herself from you and if she's moving on that fast it's probably on the rebound or in attempt to win you over. You probably do still like her, but if the attraction is gone then there's no point clinging on. You'll get over the feeling of sadness when you hear she is with someone else soon enough.
    agreed she could be on the rebound, also did she make a habit of telling you that she is going to see another guy ?
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    (Original post by tashazzz)
    She's probably just trying to distract herself from you and if she's moving on that fast it's probably on the rebound or in attempt to win you over. You probably do still like her, but if the attraction is gone then there's no point clinging on. You'll get over the feeling of sadness when you hear she is with someone else soon enough.

    I agree. She may be doing it to test your reaction to her moving on. you will naturally still have some feelings, but, you have to remember you ended it for a reason and going back to her because she's with someone else is giving her the reaction she may be looking for.

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    (Original post by irishspringbok)
    I agree. She may be doing it to test your reaction to her moving on. you will naturally still have some feelings, but, you have to remember you ended it for a reason and going back to her because she's with someone else is giving her the reaction she may be looking for.

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    Yeah, i just find it annyoing because i turned down two dates, because i felt it was too soon, didn't want to not be respectful, as we had good times together.
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    (Original post by BC95)
    agreed she could be on the rebound, also did she make a habit of telling you that she is going to see another guy ?
    Yes, hadn't thought of that!
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    (Original post by manty)
    Yes, hadn't thought of that!
    well if so, she may still have feelings for you and you may still have some feelings for her
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    (Original post by BC95)
    well if so, she may still have feelings for you and you may still have some feelings for her
    Erm, that is natural after just breaking up, i just yeah, no.
 
 
 
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