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    Have any of you ever been a victim of betrayal from someone you trusted? During my time in school I had trusted a friend with personal info only to have this person go behind my back and tell all her friends. This left a villainous aura around me destroying my reputation.

    I talked to the person expressing how I felt but I still feel angry considering I had the worst time in school due to this gossip.
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    Have any of you ever been a victim of betrayal from someone you trusted? During my time in school I had trusted a friend with personal info only to have this person go behind my back and tell all her friends. This left a villainous aura around me destroying my reputation.

    I talked to the person expressing how I felt but I still feel angry considering I had the worst time in school due to this gossip.
    You learnt a valuable lesson. You learnt the true value of the friendship. Someone once said 'anger is like holding on to a piece of hot coal with the intention of throwing it at someone else...in the end it's you who gets burned.' The past can't be changed, you need to let go of it and stop carrying this negative experience with you. I know it's not easy but you have the choice of accepting it and moving on or you can continue living in the past and letting it make you feel bad.
 
 
 
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