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    I've been with my boyfriend for a month and a half now. He is my housemate at university. This means I see him every day during term time. I've been away from him for a few days before. But no longer than 3 days.
    Currrently we are on easter break and I'm not going to see him for 3 weeks.

    Basically I've become really insecure and worried that he's going to get bored of me and find someone else. I talk to him on facebook and skype but I feel like I'm bugging him.

    He liked me for a long time before we got together and says he loves me and doesn't want anyone else. But he said that before we got together it was easy for him to stop liking me when we were apart. I'm worried he'll just forget about me.

    This is my first boyfriend and maybe I am being really stupid and worry about nothing. Also insecurity was the reason by last dating experience ended badly. I've been let down a lot in the past.

    Any advice would be useful on how to stop being so insecure.

    Thank you in advance
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    Make sure you have an awesome life of your own - set some goals regarding your studies/hobbies/personality/whatever you consider important and go about achieving them
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    if you act insecure he will sense this and it will break you up. don't let your insecurity ruin things
 
 
 
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