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    I have no idea why I do this but sinse about the age of 15, I'm 20 now, I get enjoyment knowing that people do not like me. I have no friends and I'm totally ok with that and I really don't want friends.

    I feel excitement when someone doesn't like me and they try to make me feel sad or something by expressing that "nobody likes me" "nobody wants to be your friend" ect but if only they knew that's what I want.

    I think it's because I don't want friends, I purposely try to push people away who try to be my friend. I later smile and laugh to myself when I think to myself that they really think it affects me if they don't like me but infact that's just what I want.

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I think it's because I don't want friends, I purposely try to push people away who try to be my friend. I later smile and laugh to myself when I think to myself that they really think it affects me if they don't like me but infact that's just what I want.

    :rolleyes:

    Posting in a forum telling people you don't want friends and enjoy it when people don't like you sounds inane. If you were really happy with it, then why post at all?

    I think what you really want is friends, but are afraid of being rejected so you've created a self defence/coping mechanism.

    Either way, it's kind of sad.
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    (Original post by jeery83)
    Posting in a forum telling people you don't want friends and enjoy it when people don't like you sounds inane. If you were really happy with it, then why post at all?

    I think what you really want is friends, but are afraid of being rejected so you've created a self defence/coping mechanism.

    Either way, it's kind of sad.
    Possibly, I kinda think that I'd know if I truely wanted friends, I merely posted to see if anyone else had similar thoughts or just what they thought about it in general.
 
 
 
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