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    I just need some advice from people my age and (roughly) my mindset.
    About 2 years ago I told a lad in my year that I thought I was developing feelings for him. He passed it off and said nothing would happen because he wasn't gay. After that he stopped talking to me and we grew distant as friends. I tried bothering him but he just got easily angered with me. Since then I've lost a lot of weight, shot up about 5 inches and cut my hair short. About 3 months ago he came out, but I always knew he was gay. I now have a girlfriend but still think about him, and wish we were still friends. I sent him a drunk message the other week on Facebook saying that I wasn't angry because he turned me down, because I'm no(t gay I was just confused at the time, but saying that I was angry he lied to himself about being gay. (I know this was wrong, it was probably hell for him). Should I just sweep it under the rug and try to forget about him.

    Your girlfriend needs to give out more if you're still thinking about a guy from 2 years ago


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