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    I'm a 16 year old guy. I've been going out with this girl for a while, and we've done pretty much everything other than have sex, which I'm fine with. When she tries to give me a blow job, it doesn't really work out. I find her really attractive, but I can never get to come, she's way too rough with the foreskin and it hurts. I try to tell her how to do it but she doesn't seem to get it. What can I do? I don't know how she feels about me never being able to come. I'm her first boyfriend by the way.
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    Why don't you talk to her about it? I'm sure she'd be a lot more offended if she found out that she's bad at it while she's doing it than if you're honest with her. Try and tell her some things that you'd like her to do and pretty soon she'll learn what you like best.
    It's all about communication.
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    Ask her to try doing it differently. Talk her through how you like it if its really that bad. The only way shell learn is if you direct her.
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    get to a point where your mature enough to talk about it before you get her to give you anymore blowjobs.
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    How old is she?


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    (Original post by Aries1992)
    How old is she?


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    She's older than me but in the same year at school.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    She's older than me but in the same year at school.
    Well I'm assuming she doesn't have much experience then. She'll get better.

    Stick porn on - tell her to take notes.


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    can you feel her teeth
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    Sounds similar to the Monica and chandler massage incident Name:  image.jpg
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    Sorry that wasn't an answer but it seemed appropriate.
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    No offense mate but at 16 I'm betting your crap at going down on her.
    How about talking about what you both like ?

    69's are great for shoving each other about as well.

    Although if you're sixteen don't let her dad catch you or you won't be worrying about blowjobs in the future
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    (Original post by Delbyo69)
    No offense mate but at 16 I'm betting your crap at going down on her.
    How about talking about what you both like ?

    69's are great for shoving each other about as well.

    Although if you're sixteen don't let her dad catch you or you won't be worrying about blowjobs in the future
    XD Almost certainly true if he hasn't done it much. It's probably intimidating for guys that age particularly.

    OP, You need to TALK to her. In fact, talk to her before you're even doing it. Then try to guide her when she is actually blowing you. She isn't going to get better if you don't tell her.

    And 69s: Seconded.
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    When I read the title of this thread I automatically assumed that your girlfriend is learning a language and is bad at the oral exam. :facepalm:

    I think it's time for bed and to stop thinking about college work so much.

    And yes OP, you should definitely talk to her about it. It's better to have this conversation now than later on in your relationship.
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    I want her opinion!
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    (Original post by Aries1992)
    Well I'm assuming she doesn't have much experience then. She'll get better.

    Stick porn on - tell her to take notes.
    :facepalm2:
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    (Original post by medbh4805)
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    ?


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    Once you are amazing ..... and all that
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    (Original post by Aries1992)
    ?


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    >implying op's gf should attempt to imitate porn
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    (Original post by medbh4805)
    >implying op's gf should attempt to imitate porn
    Yes...


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    (Original post by ChocoCoatedLemons)
    XD Almost certainly true if he hasn't done it much. It's probably intimidating for guys that age particularly.

    OP, You need to TALK to her. In fact, talk to her before you're even doing it. Then try to guide her when she is actually blowing you. She isn't going to get better if you don't tell her.

    And 69s: Seconded.
    So i find you again, on a sexually related post, hmm...
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    Am I the only one feeling iffy about giving tips for sixteen years old to give oral sex?

    I'm sure I'll get negged to hell for being a prude but I still think that's pretty young tbh.
 
 
 
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