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    (Original post by Aries1992)
    Well I'm assuming she doesn't have much experience then. She'll get better.

    Stick porn on - tell her to take notes.


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    (Original post by manty)
    So i find you again, on a sexually related post, hmm...
    No shame.
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    she's SIXTEEN for God's sake, give her a break. too young.
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    (Original post by Aries1992)
    Yes...


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    Pls no.

    (Original post by IlexBlue)
    Am I the only one feeling iffy about giving tips for sixteen years old to give oral sex?

    I'm sure I'll get negged to hell for being a prude but I still think that's pretty young tbh.
    Feels odd, but it'd be hypocritical of me to suggest he leave it a couple.
    Still, feels odd. Not sure why he expects her to be a goddess at 16 anyway.
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    your only 16 it will get better in time, she will get more experienced but just tell her that its slightly hurting
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    (Original post by SillyMilly)
    your only 16 it will get better in time, she will get more experienced but just tell her that its slightly hurting
    Have to agree with the last post, practice makes perfect....:cool:
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    (Original post by kaypc)
    she's SIXTEEN for God's sake, give her a break. too young.
    +10.

    OP you don't have a god given right for your 16 year old girlfriend to give you good oral. She is still very young, not some dirty old hag pornstar.

    Just thought I would point it out, ya know. :rolleyes:
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    How can you expect her to be good at oral when she's 16? And also, you stated that you're her first boyfriend. You're making it out to sound like she's done something wrong.
    You need to just talk to each other about it, otherwise neither of you will learn. If you want to get better at something, you need to know what you're doing wrong. You can't just expect her to be good at it straight away; that's like being told to write a 3000 word essay on a book you've never read.

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    lost cause. dump her
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    (Original post by blue n white army)
    lost cause. dump her
    That statement makes it sound as if you are the lost cause.
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    I don't think it's unfair for the OP to ask what to do...it sounds like its painful! But, OP, the advice given is right - you need to tell her what to do. Bit by bit, and not in a critical way. Just 'that feels good, but can you pull on my foreskin less/use your teeth less/use your hands too/whatever you want'. Equally, make sure you make it clear she can ask fr what she wants (cos I can guarantee you don't know why you're doing down there yet either) -'does this feel good? Can I do anything else?'
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    (Original post by Aries1992)
    Well I'm assuming she doesn't have much experience then. She'll get better.

    Stick porn on - tell her to take notes.


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    Porn is so unrealistic, she probably learned being rough from watching porn. Just talk it's communication that's important.
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    (Original post by Aries1992)
    Yes...


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    Oral sex (both types) in porn is usually rough and generally horrific and awful. Telling someone to imitate porn as a way of pleasing their partner is just idiotic.
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    (Original post by medbh4805)
    Oral sex (both types) in porn is usually rough and generally horrific and awful. Telling someone to imitate porn as a way of pleasing their partner is just idiotic.
    Well your watching different porn to me then.


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    (Original post by Sgt.Incontro)
    That statement makes it sound as if you are the lost cause.

    :'( the nasty man made a nasty comment :'(
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    (Original post by consumed by stuff)
    get to a point where your mature enough to talk about it before you get her to give you anymore blowjobs.
    This.
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    (Original post by Aries1992)
    Well your watching different porn to me then.


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    I very much doubt it.
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    (Original post by medbh4805)
    I very much doubt it.
    I do. I did not suggest his gf should watch any S&M, males dominating porn.

    She could easily watch couples porn which they can both enjoy and learn from.


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    (Original post by Aries1992)
    I do. I did not suggest his gf should watch any S&M, males dominating porn.

    She could easily watch couples porn which they can both enjoy and learn from.


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    Doesn't have to be s&m to be rough. Most mainstream porn shows hands-free throat ****ing as the norm. I think that would terrify your average 16 year old girl. And female oral, if its ever shown at all, is so cursory as to be pointless. Never understood what pleasure the girl is supposed to get from the dude shaking his face around for 30 seconds...
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    (Original post by flying plum)
    Doesn't have to be s&m to be rough. Most mainstream porn shows hands-free throat ****ing as the norm. I think that would terrify your average 16 year old girl. And female oral, if its ever shown at all, is so cursory as to be pointless. Never understood what pleasure the girl is supposed to get from the dude shaking his face around for 30 seconds...
    I watch porn that isn't rough. And like I said there doesn't have to be any dominance whatsoever.


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