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Reply 1

Trust me, it'll just happen. I was 15 (very nearly 16) when I had my first kiss, didn't have TSR to help me but it came naturally!

I wouldn't recommend launching into French kissing straight away though, pecks on the lips first, then just let it develop from there... :wink:

Reply 2

Anonymous
ok,title basically says it all ive never kissed a boy before and i was wondering if anyone coiuld tell me anything about good ways to kiss someone,thanks
aww your so cute :smile:

Dont use a lot of tongue, dont let it get all wet and sloppy, dont leave your hands at your side (hug him or put them behind his neck). Just kind of follow his lead.

Good luck!

Reply 3

Come on you know the rules. No threads about girlfriends without pictures of chebs

Reply 4

are you looking for a teacher? :P

Reply 5

Theresa Smells
Come on you know the rules. No threads about girlfriends without pictures of chebs



YEH MAN....i don't see them !!!

Reply 6

Theresa Smells
Come on you know the rules. No threads about girlfriends without pictures of chebs

What's a cheb!?

Reply 7

Beast approach: "GET YA RAT OOT!"

Reply 8

Sweetie, it comes naturally, really, it does. Yeah, I know, you're probably 'what the hell, I want *advice*, damnit!' However, if you over-think a kiss, you won't get as much pleasure out of it. He'll know what to do - or work it out. Boys are surprisingly good at applying mental processes to trying to turn us on, and trust me, he'll be able to kiss you.

That said and done, it IS nice to start out with little kisses. My boyfriend didn't shove his tongue in my mouth our first kiss, he just brushed his lips over mine, and it's quite a gentle way to start. Just touching lips, briefly can have an effect :smile: If you want to deepen the kiss, part your lips slightly - just enough so you could breathe out of your mouth if you weren't breathing through your nose! If he's a lead-taker, he'll probably initiate tongue-kissing, but if he's shy, test it by sweeping your tongue against his bottom lip lightly - the tip of your tongue, FYI.

When your tongue is touching his, you just... go with what feels right. Play with it, circle the tip of your tongue against his, stroke his tongue with yours, push it out of your mouth and into his, etc.

Have fun kissing!

Reply 9

cloudofcalm
Sweetie, it comes naturally, really, it does. Yeah, I know, you're probably 'what the hell, I want *advice*, damnit!' However, if you over-think a kiss, you won't get as much pleasure out of it. He'll know what to do - or work it out. Boys are surprisingly good at applying mental processes to trying to turn us on, and trust me, he'll be able to kiss you.

That said and done, it IS nice to start out with little kisses. My boyfriend didn't shove his tongue in my mouth our first kiss, he just brushed his lips over mine, and it's quite a gentle way to start. Just touching lips, briefly can have an effect :smile: If you want to deepen the kiss, part your lips slightly - just enough so you could breathe out of your mouth if you weren't breathing through your nose! If he's a lead-taker, he'll probably initiate tongue-kissing, but if he's shy, test it by sweeping your tongue against his bottom lip lightly - the tip of your tongue, FYI.

When your tongue is touching his, you just... go with what feels right. Play with it, circle the tip of your tongue against his, stroke his tongue with yours, push it out of your mouth and into his, etc.

Have fun kissing!


Lol you sound an expert, wouldn't mind sampling some of that :biggrin:

Reply 10

Don't eat his mouth and don't lick him. Thats pretty much it:biggrin: rest will come naturally.

Reply 11

thanks everyone who helped,your advice is appreciated!lol

Reply 12

Anonymous
ok,title basically says it all ive never kissed a boy before and i was wondering if anyone coiuld tell me anything about good ways to kiss someone,thanks

i've never kissed a girl or a boy for that matter before. don;t worry. just let the mood carry you!

Reply 13

i'm in the same boat.
i've had a boyfriend before, but that was two years ago.
ughh, what a loner.

good luck x

Reply 14

When your tongue is touching his, you just... go with what feels right. Play with it, circle the tip of your tongue against his, stroke his tongue with yours, push it out of your mouth and into his, etc.

lip bitings best :yes:

Reply 15

LEEK
i'm in the same boat.
i've had a boyfriend before, but that was two years ago.
ughh, what a loner.

good luck x

I don't understand why you felt the need to give a this thread a ridiculous bump to post that.

Frankly, I'm astounded that you had to look back 4 YEARS to find a thread about having never kissed before.

Reply 16

marshey
I don't understand why you felt the need to give a this thread a ridiculous bump to post that.

Frankly, I'm astounded that you had to look back 4 YEARS to find a thread about having never kissed before.


:rofl: Hahahahahaha.

Reply 17

I don't understand why you felt the need to give a this thread a ridiculous bump to post that.

Frankly, I'm astounded that you had to look back 4 YEARS to find a thread about having never kissed before.


why are you on it then?