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    I'm not in a relationship but I'm curious, do people in sexual relationships still masturbate as much if at all as they did as singletons?
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    I didn't but i know alot of people do.

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    If you do masturbate in relationship, is it cheating to watch porn?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If you do masturbate in relationship, is it cheating to watch porn?
    That's totally dependent on the other half. Some will really dislike it and feel like they are not enough. Others will not mind. Therefore you should discuss with your partner where they stand with that.

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    I do it. My girlfriend doesn't but she didn't much anyway. She says she's fine with me doing it, and I don't watch porn so I don't see it as much of a problem... I think about her most if not all of the time
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    (Original post by Graciegoose)
    I'm not in a relationship but I'm curious, do people in sexual relationships still masturbate as much if at all as they did as singletons?
    Either masturbation or some other sexual contact, yes.

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    If you do masturbate in relationship, is it cheating to watch porn?
    I wouldn't say so, no. I depends on the couple, tbh.
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    (Original post by Graciegoose)
    I'm not in a relationship but I'm curious, do people in sexual relationships still masturbate as much if at all as they did as singletons?
    Sometimes my girlfriend's watched me masturbate, but usually we just 'do it'. People will always masturbate, but sex is more satisfying, so you don't have to masturbate as often if you have sex. At least in my experience, that is.
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    My boyfriend used to get upset that I have to always 'finish myself off' during sex but now he sort of joins in by stroking me/kissing me etc.

    I am ALWAYS up for pleasing him. What upsets me is when he can masturbate to porn when we're apart but is too tired/can't get it up when we see eachother. Which is about every 3 months, long-distance. I'm not ugly either... 33-22-35 amateur pinup model >_<

    If we were living together I think neither of us would do it as much. We'd have enough practice to make me *** but there is room to show your partner how you like it done, not necessarily 'leaving them out' or making them feel inadequate. As much as I complain, having him talk me through what he does to himself was quite helpful and it's nice that your partner is comfortable enough with you to share their most secret private 'forbidden' activity.
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    (Original post by Little Wolf Taima)
    I'm not ugly either... 33-22-35 amateur pinup model >_<
    Sorry gonna need pics to decide on the accuracy of this post.


    Op, it depends on how often we have sex. I'm gonna masturbate if theres no sex for a week
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    (Original post by Nick1sHere)
    Sorry gonna need pics to decide on the accuracy of this post.


    Op, it depends on how often we have sex. I'm gonna masturbate if theres no sex for a week
    Yeah we need proof :holmes:

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    I do, and always have done. I have a relatively high sex drive, and as we are both usually busy with Uni work we dont have time for sex all the time.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If you do masturbate in relationship, is it cheating to watch porn?
    no because the people are not in viable reach of your partner there naked in front of millions of people watching it they do not know your specfic partner is watching it, its not created for your partner personally its like an unrealistic fantasy. I have no issue with my boyfriend watching porn (i have no idea if he does) as hes watching woman he doesnt know on a computor screen its not personal if he was i dont know paying woman to take their clothes of in front of him then yes thats cheating because its personal and created for him
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    I do it, if my g/f doesn't like it then meh.
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    Probably not a lot but yes.
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    (Original post by Little Wolf Taima)
    My boyfriend used to get upset that I have to always 'finish myself off' during sex but now he sort of joins in by stroking me/kissing me etc.

    I am ALWAYS up for pleasing him. What upsets me is when he can masturbate to porn when we're apart but is too tired/can't get it up when we see eachother. Which is about every 3 months, long-distance. I'm not ugly either... 33-22-35 amateur pinup model >_<

    If we were living together I think neither of us would do it as much. We'd have enough practice to make me *** but there is room to show your partner how you like it done, not necessarily 'leaving them out' or making them feel inadequate. As much as I complain, having him talk me through what he does to himself was quite helpful and it's nice that your partner is comfortable enough with you to share their most secret private 'forbidden' activity.
    he probably has erectile dysfunction lol
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    Absolutely yes.
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    (Original post by Jaegon Targaryen)
    Pics or it didn't happen.
    I don't want to derail this thread by being a pic whore so I'll post one and you can decide yourself whether you believe it's me. Or PM me, whatever.

    http://i1083.photobucket.com/albums/...4E73FA07C1.jpg

    But when we're together I try and initiate sex daily. Sometimes it goes my way, sometimes not. But I can't argue with the fact he knows how to handle himself best. All the years of his life before me he was the only one who took care of it! I guess what matters most is feeling loved, and I most certainly am :3
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    Not going to lie, after three days libido kicks in and if she wasn't around/aroused, the tissues came out.

    Single now, so not a problem.
 
 
 
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