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    Basically me and my friend both liked this girl and she picked him over me after messing around with my feelings for months and even coming onto me a couple of times. So I was left feeling pretty annoyed and my mate said that if I want he wont get into a relationship with this girl as I admitted to him that I don't think I could be the same with him after it.
    To be honest I dont want him to get into a relationship with her because I cant imagine being in the same room as them considering he is one of my best mates and we hang around with each other quite alot and I think that it will slowly make me dislike him but I just don't know whether I am being a **** making him choose between me or her, what do you think TSR?
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    I don't think it's a bad decision because your friend should respect your feelings. Anybody would feel what your feeling if they were treated like that. If I were your friend, I wouldn't get into a relationship with her UNLESS the girl explained and apologized for her actions and you could forgive her and feel comfortable with it. You are lucky to have a friend who would do something on behalf of you. But if it comes to a point in which he is unhappy about having to choose between the two of you and really wants to date her, I think that you should then let him have the both of you (even if his reason is silly, your still his friend). I know you might not like that, but I would honestly choose that decision because I would want to put other peoples feelings above mine.

    I hope the situation clears up for you all!
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    I agree with Chloe. Your friend should sort of look down on this girl for messing you about - it's low status. If he's still sniffing after her after that, then that makes him low status too.

    In before someone else says it, but in this case... bros before hoes, definitely!
 
 
 
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