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    I don't want this to turn into a thread about how seeing escorts is wrong, but do any others on here genuinely enjoy seeing ladies that provide services?

    I for one love it and it has really opened my mind sexually. I've got to try so many things that I would not have had I had a girlfriend. On top of this, the rush of just going in and having incredible sex with a stranger is a huge turn on for me. It's an expensive hobby but one that is definitely worthwhile.

    So guys, anyone else had any great experiences with escorts?
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    Well, apart from the variety of partners, there's nothing sexual that an escort can do that a girlfriend can't. And in an open relationship, you can have that too.

    I do get the variety and casual sex bits, but fortunately for my wallet, while I know that it is entirely possible for an escort to have a good time with a client, for me the thought 'if they really wanted to do this with me, I wouldn't have to pay for it' would be both inevitable and deeply unerotic.
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    Yeah mate most of us get it all for free

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    escorts, lol. sounds like you need therapy my friend.
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    I haven't seen an escort, I would be kind of interested in it though. I'm in an open relationship and have a variety of regular partners, so it's not the variety/casual sex bit interesting me, it's that I'm wondering how exchanging money for a sexual service would change the dynamic. Because I'm sure it would change the dynamic, I'm just not sure how. And that's intriguing to me.

    I used to be all "nah, I don't need to pay for my good times! -hair flick-" but I was talking to a friend who was planning on seeing an escort for similar "hmm I wonder how it would be" reasons and it changed my point of view.

    But currently I'm a broke student, so it won't be happening anytime soon.
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    there is no reason to pay some hilarious amounts of money, if you can get the same service much cheaper at bar/pub (it will cost you only few drinks).
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I don't want this to turn into a thread about how seeing escorts is wrong, but do any others on here genuinely enjoy seeing ladies that provide services?

    I for one love it and it has really opened my mind sexually. I've got to try so many things that I would not have had I had a girlfriend. On top of this, the rush of just going in and having incredible sex with a stranger is a huge turn on for me. It's an expensive hobby but one that is definitely worthwhile.

    So guys, anyone else had any great experiences with escorts?
    Then find a girl that is hot and up to the grade to fulfil your needs... and no its not an expensive hobby its quite easy to befriend an escort. Everyone has there weak spots... they are normal people that lead ordinary lives.

    "In order to gain something you much give up something of equal value".
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    (Original post by wildbluesun)
    I haven't seen an escort, I would be kind of interested in it though. I'm in an open relationship and have a variety of regular partners, so it's not the variety/casual sex bit interesting me, it's that I'm wondering how exchanging money for a sexual service would change the dynamic. Because I'm sure it would change the dynamic, I'm just not sure how. And that's intriguing to me.

    I used to be all "nah, I don't need to pay for my good times! -hair flick-" but I was talking to a friend who was planning on seeing an escort for similar "hmm I wonder how it would be" reasons and it changed my point of view.

    But currently I'm a broke student, so it won't be happening anytime soon.
    Well, if you wanted to see a male one, you've got the advantage that they tend to be cheaper than female ones (even excluding the chancers who put penis pics up on escort directories generously offering their services for free to women - actually, you'd very probably be better off going to sites aimed at the gay scene and looking for the bisexual ones...)

    Regardless, of course it changes the dynamic! You have chosen someone either because you want to be sexual with them or because they offer something you want to experience, but ultimately they are very much the one in charge, down to how long the encounter will be.

    The money changes things. If you have casual sex with someone and it's not good, well, that happens. If you pay and it's not good, it has to be a whole different feeling. (And if it is good, you'll have to pay to see them again: by paying the first time, you put yourself in the set of 'clients' and the intersection of that with the set of 'people escorts have a relationship with' is very very small.)
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    (Original post by SloaneRanger)
    its not an expensive hobby its quite easy to befriend an escort.
    A variety of things mean I know quite a lot of escorts. One reason they're friends is that I do not expect to have sex with them for free (and paying is out of the question for me, see above). I think I've slept with just one, and that was after they retired from sex work.

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    (Original post by unprinted)
    A variety of things mean I know quite a lot of escorts. One reason they're friends is that I do not expect to have sex with them for free (and paying is out of the question for me, see above). I think I've slept with just one, and that was after they retired from sex work.



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    haha yeah their, bu either way if a girl wants to sleep with you and you form an emotional dependency its game. Acquaintances and friends are different! Yeah....so you see with sleeping with one once she's quit, thats different.
 
 
 
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