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    i admitted that i have a Porn and masterbating addiction.


    so heres my story ,a few weeks back i made a thread asking if i was gay, because gay porn turns me on, but i dont think this is the case. i have been watching porn from a very young age, at around twelve, and i still do , but as i got older i started to watch more of it , and it got more stranger aswell. at the start i only watched soft core ones , now i like watching these really hardcore and even bondage films at times, and recently to make things even more strange , i started to watch gay ones, cuz i kinda got bored of the straight ones .porn is messing up my mind, and i was really confused about my sexaulity a few weeks back when gay porn started to turn me on, but finally figured what wrong with my mind.

    i know im not gay because my emotions that i feel for a girl are far too much, and well its not the same for a male, not in the slightess. but weirdly gay porn turns me on, i guess werid stuff turns me on.

    i find it really hard to cut back on the masterbating aswell and i think its affecting my grades aswell, i really want to do well in life, my parents have done so much for me, i have to get into a good uni this year and make them proud, but i think the porn is affecting me very badly.

    i can not confront to my parents, they will for sure be hugley dissapointed and depressed too.

    i already put on a porn blocker on my laptop, but i keep on having these weird fantasises and it really does mess my revision time table, any ideas , i need help. any suggestions on how to avoid feeling this way. thanks
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    lol
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    really?? all you got to say is "lol" .
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    youre defo gay my friend
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    (Original post by matt551)
    youre defo gay my friend
    how so?
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    (Original post by matt551)
    you look at bum boy porn and play with yourself when you see it lol. so gross.
    watching gay porn doesnt technically make you gay, it is if you have feelings for a another man, then your gay .
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    (Original post by matt551)
    you look at bum boy porn and play with yourself when you see it lol. so gross.
    you sound so homophobic when you say that, lol
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    lol i is just telling it like it is, you know the way. lol.
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    (Original post by matt551)
    you look at bum boy porn and play with yourself when you see it lol. so gross.
    dude i know i am not gay, believe me, when a guy gives another man a blow job , or kisses him , its grosses me out,for me it looks very unappealing , its just the anal that turns me on weirdly,
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    you sound very confused lol. have you tried therapy? lol.
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    Your young, every one goes through stages like this in their life. its normal, this might be just a phase.

    Isn't there any one you can talk to about this problem , maybe a guidance counselor, to avoid watching porn, get your self away from the net , stay in a place surrounded by people, so you would not be able to ****, im sure its not a major problem, so chill out and take it easy
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    i definitely recommend therapy. lol.
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    (Original post by matt551)
    you sound very confused lol. have you tried therapy? lol.
    dude , im only eighteen, havn't got money for that kinda stuff, i figured out whats wrong with me, just need to stop with the porn some how.

    i am not confused , for me porn is like a drug , once you try it , its very hard to stop, and you start to experiment to get a higher buzz, first you try from weed , after a while you go on to herion, then cocane, and so on until your life is ruined. obviously i don't do drugs.


    The same happened to me, i got bored of watching normal porn , so i moved on to anal ,bondage, then gay. its freaking me out, cause i really don't want this to worsen more, thats why the porn addiction must stop NOW.
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    lol. you could always move on to another type of porn, lol. have you seen fisting?
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    You like it because it's so taboo. In reality I bet you'd be quite against gay sex, if you're not gay. It's probably just the excitement of being able to gratuitously watch it 100% anonymously.

    Just go cold turkey man. Or watch Shame. Quite a good film actually.

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    lol. you could always move on to another type of porn, lol. have you seen fisting?
    here i am, trying to find some good answers to my problem and your suggesting try fisting, really?
    have you not heard the phrase, do not encourage the person even more by giving him ideas. lol , your really helpful, thanks mate.
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    Or just continue as you are. I mean, there are 7ish billion people on this planet, and probably a few million of them are into all kinds of quite shocking sexual things. Watching it on a computer is comparably normal really if you think about it!

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    it is my duty to be helpful and that is what i am doing. i aim to please, lol. i hope you find some new porn that will make your sexy play time much more fun and you will not be upset because you seem upset about your sexuality lol. if fisting is not for you then maybe you could watch foot fetish porn or something like that lol as that is something different and does not require gays to perform in them lol. hope this helps.
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    thoughts on bbw? lol.
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    thoughts on bbw? lol.
    dude im a porn addict, stop giving my ideas and help me stop watching these unreal crap, lol ,
 
 
 
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