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    Hey guys, can you help me with something please?!
    me and my boyfriend want to have sex soon. we both agreed its fine.
    but im wondering if im on day one of my period (started the same day i have sex) what is the chances of me becoming pregnant if we use a condom? im absolutely so scared of becoming pregnant literely! The pill is out of options at this moment of time for one private reason.
    What are the chances though! Im worried and we do want to do it soon and this cropped up on google so im just wondering!.
    or also what if get my period one day and the next day we have sex?
    or if i start my period in the morning and have sex the same morning/afternoon?
    Also ive been told people bleed or it hurts when you first have sex (yes im a virgin!) but ive also been told that if your a gymnast or if you can do the splits then it might not bleed or hurt as much! ive been a gymnast for 13 and a half years now and am used to doing the splits every single day so help!?
    If you could help me it would be amazing!
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    Period + condom = very, very low chance of becoming pregnant. It will be a bit messy (put a folded towel on the bed) and it will increase friction on the condom as the blood dries (use lube).

    I don't know, but it sounds plausible because you've been stretching the area a lot and you're unlikely to have much of a hymen left.
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    Would you really want your first time to be on your period? :/ I know I wouldn't.
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    Why is the pill (or any other form of contraception) out of the question... I know you said its private but you're anonymous anyway so who's going to know really?

    So long as you use condoms correctly, you should be fine any time of the month. The failure rate is very low. I used only condoms for 5 months and was fine. There's not really any need for this paranoia.
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    Okay thanks
 
 
 
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