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    Just wondering whether if someone cheated on you, would you go back to them? Personally I don't think there is an excuse for cheating you're either happy in the relationship or you want something else. I mean if my (non-existent) boyfriend cheated on me all hell would break loose and there would be a very low chance of me taking him back, what about you guys?


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    Have to admit I would find it very hard to forgive. The only time I have forgiven cheating was at Monopoly.
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    (Original post by meenu89)
    Have to admit I would find it very to forgive. The only time I have forgiven cheating was at Monopoly.
    Ha ha, you made my day.
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    At the end of the day, it will still depend on the individual, how they react and feel to it.
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    Nope, afraid not.
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    No. The trust would be gone and that would ruin it.

    I'm not going to say I wouldn't want to take them back - but in the long run I couldn't see it working out.
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    I honestly don't know.

    Kneejerk reaction would be no, absolutely not, but you just don't know unless it happens to you. It probably wouln't be worth it, though. I can't imagine things could ever be the same.
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    (Original post by TinM)
    Just wondering whether if someone cheated on you, would you go back to them? Personally I don't think there is an excuse for cheating you're either happy in the relationship or you want something else. I mean if my (non-existent) boyfriend cheated on me all hell would break loose and there would be a very low chance of me taking him back, what about you guys?


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    I don't think I could. Trust is one of the things I value most about relationships, if that was broken then there is little/no chance that I'd take them back.
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    I have always thought no and it's what I say yo my friends... If that guy cheats on you... Then he is a jerk. But then I got into a similar situation. And when you care/infatuated/love someone so much - it's hard letting go


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    I definitely couldn't forgive them. The trust would be gone and there's the saying 'once a cheat, always a cheat'. I don't necessarily believe that saying but people are just cheats and can't stay faithful.

    I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and if he cheated, it would take a long time for me to be able to trust a man again, let alone trust him again.
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    There is always the qs... At what point do you draw a line and say they are cheating
    1. Sleeping
    2. Saying to another girl they are beautiful and emotionally likes that other girl but doesn't do anything
    3. Dance with another girl at a club but didnt intend to
    4. Checks another girl out? Etc etc


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    I'd be so upset i don't think things would ever be the same between my boyfriend & I again-i'd also feel really ashamed of myself for going back on my morals.

    BTW i count cheating as kissing/inappropriate contact.
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    Personally I haven't forgiven people who cheated on me, even when they try and worm their way back into my life.
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    (Original post by melanz)
    There is always the qs... At what point do you draw a line and say they are cheating
    1. Sleeping
    2. Saying to another girl they are beautiful and emotionally likes that other girl but doesn't do anything
    3. Dance with another girl at a club but didnt intend to
    4. Checks another girl out? Etc etc


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    How the Hell does one unintentionally dance with someone?
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    I wouldn't be bothered enough to even stress over whether or not I 'forgive' them. They have effectively ended the relationship and I move on without a second thought.
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    Did once after a while
    She went and did it again ¬¬
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    Not a chance


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    I'd always said I wouldn't forgive someone but when it came to it, I tried to as I knew how bad he felt over it..but in the end I just couldn't forgive and forget as the trust had gone.
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    (Original post by Mockery)
    I wouldn't be bothered enough to even stress over whether or not I 'forgive' them. They have ended the relationship and I move on without a second thought.
    This.
 
 
 
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