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    Sadly... I am out of an almost 5-year-long relationship, with the only girlfriend I ever had, and which profoundly defined every aspect of my life throughout my late teens, university and first career experiences.

    I had many changed during the past months and came to the conclusion that I really want to try this thing I have never tried before: casual sex.

    I am suddenly curious about going into a nightclub and meeting someone just for sex. And I want to do it just for a limited time period - and then return to my usual life ambitions.

    I have been to various nightclubs before, also here in London, with friends and colleagues, but I have never seen/noticed that strangers randomly meet. Are there specific clubs I need to go to, where there are other women who are looking for the same thing?

    Do you have any recommendations of clubs?

    I also don't want to waste too much time on this. I want to stay true to myself, not engage in hours of flirting techniques, but just find other women who are naturally willing to do it.

    For this reason, I told myself that if I won't find a woman within 1-2 weeks, I might try asking an escort agency or travel to Amsterdam.

    This is an important and not so easy decision considering my personal history and values, but I just want to try it, and then never ever do it again.
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    You should only have sex if you love someone.
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    (Original post by YOLO.)
    You should only have sex if you love someone.
    Sex and love are two different things
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    (Original post by Acruzen)
    Sex and love are two different things
    That may be so, but, what I said, is what I've always been told.

    Besiders, OP, are you sure you're not hurting? Is the right thing to do? You might look back and regret it.
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    (Original post by YOLO.)
    That may be so, but, what I said, is what I've always been told.

    That may be so, but that doesn't make it right. Sex is just sex at the end of the day.
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    Sex is just jamming your penis in and out of a vagina really quickly, love is about feelings and ****, comes from the heart
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    (Original post by EonBlueApocalypse)
    That may be so, but that doesn't make it right. Sex is just sex at the end of the day.
    Yeah, sex can be meaningless, but, what I said, is what I believe in. Doesn't mean I'll keep to it, but, I'm not changing my mind.
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    (Original post by Polygoof)
    Sadly... I am out of an almost 5-year-long relationship, with the only girlfriend I ever had, and which profoundly defined every aspect of my life throughout my late teens, university and first career experiences.

    I had many changed during the past months and came to the conclusion that I really want to try this thing I have never tried before: casual sex.

    I am suddenly curious about going into a nightclub and meeting someone just for sex. And I want to do it just for a limited time period - and then return to my usual life ambitions.

    I have been to various nightclubs before, also here in London, with friends and colleagues, but I have never seen/noticed that strangers randomly meet. Are there specific clubs I need to go to, where there are other women who are looking for the same thing?

    Do you have any recommendations of clubs?

    I also don't want to waste too much time on this. I want to stay true to myself, not engage in hours of flirting techniques, but just find other women who are naturally willing to do it.

    For this reason, I told myself that if I won't find a woman within 1-2 weeks, I might try asking an escort agency or travel to Amsterdam.

    This is an important and not so easy decision considering my personal history and values, but I just want to try it, and then never ever do it again.
    Also OP, ministry of sound in london is the exact place you're looking for. People looking to engage sexually undergo a secret courtship signal whereby males bury their faces into the upper backs of women they find attractive. Best of luck OP, and remember, don't be silly, wrap your willy.
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    It really depends on several factors. How attractive you are in that a girl would be willing to let you in her vajoojoo without knowing anything about you. Second, how much game you have in picking up women and third how loose those respective women are. I'd suggest you go for the one that has a moderately slutty outfit (not too slutty, you don't want the herp).

    They in all circumstances have terrible self esteem and see ONSs as some sort of validation for their appearance.
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    Wrap it in latex, otherwise she'll claim your paychecks!
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    I really didn't want to spark a debate on whether I should do it or not. I already sorted that question within myself, thanks.

    I was looking more for answers of the above type, i.e. which clubs or types of clubs, which sort of events, etc. especially if you are in London or know London and know of any specifics...

    Thanks
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    (Original post by Polygoof)
    I really didn't want to spark a debate on whether I should do it or not. I already sorted that question within myself, thanks.

    I was looking more for answers of the above type, i.e. which clubs or types of clubs, which sort of events, etc.
    Okay, just make sure you know what you are doing, completely, before rushing into anything.
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    If you're not fussy, look on Craigslist.
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    (Original post by Izzyeviel)
    If you're not fussy, look on Craigslist.
    Yeah or if you're really not fussed then TSR.
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    Ok i can help here, every chance you get to start a bit of small chat about something in common with a girl do it, if its cold mention how freezing it is, how much you like/dislike the music pretty much anything to get a conversation going but keep it short and sweet and if a girl continues the conversation flow with it if not dont force it move on. Do this with 20 girls and one will like you. Oh yeah forgot there is no certain place to go, where theres girls theres opportunity.
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    You don't want to go on such unfulfilled journey.
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    (Original post by marcus2001)
    Yeah or if you're really not fussed then TSR.
    Boy, I've really missed the boat then.
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    (Original post by Izzyeviel)
    If you're not fussy, look on Craigslist.
    Just went on Craiglist for the first time, some of the ads on there are incredible
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