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    I don't know why my boyfriend and his ex split up but I really feel like I need to know, yet at the same time I really don't want to know :/.... confusing!
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    maybe.

    I wouldnt be with someone unless they were a friend first anyway in which case id probably already know
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    no, i wouldnt say it was any of my buisness
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    Only after I split with my ex I wondered if it was the same reason I broke up with him. I'm just a bit nosey though.
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    I'm the type who likes to know everything about the person I am in a relationship with. I don't have anything to hide; if they ask me about my previous relationships, I tell them. If they choose not to tell me what happened, I'd find it a bit suspicious, but that's just me.

    If it was a case they broke up because it was a mutual split, or feelings fizzled away, then that's nothing to worry about. It happens. If however it was a case that he'd cheated, then alarm bells would start ringing - for me, anyway.
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    On a slightly different note, I'd love to know if my ex's current gf knows that the reason we split was because he was physically and emotionally abusive towards me. I doubt she would be with him if she knew the true extent of it.


    This was sent from TSR's iPhone app, as I couldn't be arsed to turn on the laptop.
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    I think out of curiosity most people would wonder why their other half broke up from their ex, obviously I would respect the fact if they rather not say.
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    (Original post by Rock Fan)
    I think out of curiosity most people would wonder why their other half broke up from their ex, obviously I would respect the fact if they rather not say.
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