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    I've been with this new girl for about a month now and everything was fine till we had sex for the first time about a week ago. Before that we'd had oral a few times and it was all working down there. But ever since that first time I haven't been able to get a full erection or maintain my semi. I know the obvious answer is probably anxiety issues but this problem has carried on even when I'm alone and watching porn.

    I've had a previous long term girlfriend and 2 ONS's and this has never happened to me before. It's so frustrating and I just don't know how to fix it.

    I know this isn't an incredibly helpful thing to say but you should go and see your GP. It is probably a temporary issue which will subside on its own, and erectile dysfunction is often caused by underlying stress, but if it is continuing when lesser expected then it could be a medical issue and your GP will be able to find out for certain... And if you haven't done it already then talk to your girlfriend about it, else she will probably think it's her fault, because girls are crazy like that
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