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    Long story short, I have been friends with this guy a year and we slept together a few times, and recently we decided to spend more time together to and see how things go. Things have been fine in that we have stayed at each other's and not had sex, just kissed etc and we have loads in common and we have a good time together, but I'm paranoid he doesn't find me physically attractive.

    I guess it's because I know I'm not his usual type because I think he prefes the English rose type like Emma Watson and Keira Knightley. I've been told I'm good looking by males and females, but I wouldn't say I'm stunning, but I'm mixed race (half Jamaican) with the stereotypical black girl bum and I'm a size 10-12. Do you think I should be worried? It's this one thing that is at the back of my mind and making me paranoid
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    If he didn't find you attractive, then you wouldn't be kissing each other.

    Also, men are quite versatile creatures that can be attracted to all sorts of women be it skinny white posh girls or size 12 mixed race girls.

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Long story short, I have been friends with this guy a year and we slept together a few times, and recently we decided to spend more time together to and see how things go. Things have been fine in that we have stayed at each other's and not had sex, just kissed etc and we have loads in common and we have a good time together, but I'm paranoid he doesn't find me physically attractive.

    I guess it's because I know I'm not his usual type because I think he prefes the English rose type like Emma Watson and Keira Knightley. I've been told I'm good looking by males and females, but I wouldn't say I'm stunning, but I'm mixed race (half Jamaican) with the stereotypical black girl bum and I'm a size 10-12. Do you think I should be worried? It's this one thing that is at the back of my mind and making me paranoid
    well i think he does find you attractive or else he wouldnt be dating you!!! you should have more confidence on yourself;-)

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    If he didn't find you attractive he wouldn't have slept with you unless he was desperate for a shag.
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    The other responses are right, if he didn't fancy you, he probably wouldn't have entered into this kind of relationship in the first place!
    Have more confidence in yourself, hun.
    Everyone is beautiful in their own way and I'm sure you're stunning
    At the end of the day, we can't help other people's opinions of us, but we can alter our own!
 
 
 
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