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    So, I've been a member on Okcupid since Sunday. I messaged a few woman, but this one woman messaged back and she seemed interesting. She is 30 and I'm 24, but anyway, we got chatting, exchanging messages etc.

    I messaged her a short while ago about the food she likes. she told me she likes Italian food, so here's what I said, and her reply.

    Me: "So, looks like I'm going to have to take you for Italian...interesting!"

    Her: "Yes, you definitely should "

    Me: "What Italian dish is your favourite?"

    Her: "pizza and pasta, but it's the dessert that is important "

    Is she hinting at sex or am I just being dumb? lol.

    She is 30, attractive, single, no kids, lives on her own, it's like perfect situation.
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    Try not to read too much into things. She could just be genuinely saying that she really likes desert (who doesn't?)

    While there is potential for the message to be pure innuendo, it could also be perfectly innocent. You'll need to do some more leg work to be sure.
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    I had to read it like 3 times to figure out what you're getting at. I doubt it soz, back to the porn site with you.
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    One other thing she did say in a previous conversation was this:

    Me: "So, do you have any special talents?"

    Her: "Like what? lol"

    Me: "Sing? Dance? Do a handstand? I bet you were thinking something else, eh?"

    Her: "I was actually lol. No, I can't sing or dance, but I'm a very good kisser"

    This is kind of why I am kind of reading inbetween the lines of that last message. I don't know if she is getting at something or just innocent chat.

    Any female opinions, please??
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    Could be perfectly innocent but definately room there for you to turn it into an innuendo and add in some cheeky charm. She wouldnt be messaging you back if she wasnt a little bit interested
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    (Original post by Yawn11)
    I had to read it like 3 times to figure out what you're getting at. I doubt it soz, back to the porn site with you.
    I have to disagree, that winky face settles it! If it was purely innocent and she does just have a soft spot for tiramisu then surely a simple smiley face would suffice?
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    Reply with "I'm a big fan of pie "
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    I'm no expert, but just saying she's a very good kisser seems a rather strong hint to me.
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    It's called flirting. jeeez
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    Offer her your Swiss Roll?
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    (Original post by InnerTemple)
    Try not to read too much into things. She could just be genuinely saying that she really likes desert (who doesn't?)

    While there is potential for the message to be pure innuendo, it could also be perfectly innocent. You'll need to do some more leg work to be sure.


    She's just flirting. That includes referencing sex, and depending on how the date goes, may be up for stuff...
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    It seems like she's being flirty. That's not necessarily the same as hinting at sex, but why would you be on Okcupid if you didn't want "something" out of it?

    Just keep being flirty in return and see where it goes. Mentioning that she's a good kisser makes it sound like she's interested in more than just apple pie.
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    Yeah, she's flirting with you.
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    "Time to play Innuendo bingo!"

    If you hadn't gathered, yes, she's flirting and is interested.

    Give it a go and take her out for an Italian ya mug. You might just get a great desert afterwards
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    its the face
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    SHE WANTS THE D MAN, its obvious.

    reply with something flirty
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    And I'm pretty sure that "desert" in that context is a suggestive remark..
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    (Original post by WhiteWalker)
    So, I've been a member on Okcupid since Sunday. I messaged a few woman, but this one woman messaged back and she seemed interesting. She is 30 and I'm 24, but anyway, we got chatting, exchanging messages etc.

    I messaged her a short while ago about the food she likes. she told me she likes Italian food, so here's what I said, and her reply.

    Me: "So, looks like I'm going to have to take you for Italian...interesting!"

    Her: "Yes, you definitely should "

    Me: "What Italian dish is your favourite?"

    Her: "pizza and pasta, but it's the dessert that is important "

    Is she hinting at sex or am I just being dumb? lol.

    She is 30, attractive, single, no kids, lives on her own, it's like perfect situation.
    You will never know until you take her out for dinner.
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    She defo wants the d.
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    She wants it hard and fast.
 
 
 
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