I'm in year 12 and have been in a relationship for 19 months. I will be applying for uni in a few months. My girlfriend and I have said for a while now that we are going to uni together, but would it work ?
Obviously every relationship is different, but in your experiences is it a good idea to go from seeing her on weekends to living with her ? Its a big move to make, especially considering all the other pressures of going to uni. So should I go to uni with her ? Or is it somehow destined for disaster ?
Should I stay with my girlfriend when we go to uni ? Watch
- Thread Starter
- 03-04-2013 16:24
- 03-04-2013 20:58
So are you both applying to the same university and the same flats? If you could, I would recommend trying to get into seperate halls. That way you both could make your own friends and if you stay together could always live together the next year.
- Community Assistant
- 03-04-2013 23:47
No harm trying but do get seperate halls, then if it doesn't work out you can have some space. I went to the same uni as my girlfriend and it just didn't work but I know plenty of people for whom it worked out just fine good luck
- 04-04-2013 00:04
What happens if you break up ....
You live together ... ****
You went to that University just for her .... ****
Don't do it. Honestly.