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    Like I think I'm just obsessed with the idea and not the actual girls because when I think hard, I realise I have barely anything in common with them, we probably wouldn't get on etc. I literally think I'm just obsessed with the idea of having a girlfriend and end up thinking I'm obsessed with girls when I get butterflies around certain people. What can I do??? D:
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    Get one? :yawn:
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    Grow up you ****ing weakling
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    What? I am not understanding ur situation? Can u elaborate?

    U might have a maladaptive dreaming disorder
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    (Original post by Arnob204)
    Grow up you ****ing weakling
    Really not very helpful is it? It's not my fault I get these feelings, I don't get them because I'm pathetic, I get them because I'm human and I have emotions.
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    Get one? :yawn:
    Top class advice.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Really not very helpful is it? It's not my fault I get these feelings, I don't get them because I'm pathetic, I get them because I'm human and I have emotions.
    Well I'm human, and I don't get these feelings. Maybe you just need to grow up and realise that getting a girlfriend will likely not make your life any better.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Like I think I'm just obsessed with the idea and not the actual girls because when I think hard, I realise I have barely anything in common with them, we probably wouldn't get on etc. I literally think I'm just obsessed with the idea of having a girlfriend and end up thinking I'm obsessed with girls when I get butterflies around certain people. What can I do??? D:
    You'll have something in common with a girl one day, you obviously just haven't found her yet. And even if you don't have much in common, opposites attract! Everyone likes the idea of having someone to love and love them back, you're no different from everyone else.
    Just get yourself out there and speak to girls. You'll see that we're not all weird, screaming psychos who all love the same things and you'll find someone who you can start a relationship with
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    Try and make more friends who are girls , this will help subside the obsession you have with females and will make it easier to talk to them.

    I have a mate who obsesses over girls so much , but doesn't try AT ALL . No homo but this dude has potential to get pussy galore , im pretty ugly im not going to lie . But I have more girl-freinds then he does , I don't know what it is with him , he makes the excuse that he went to a boys school but I did too and I can still speak to girls . There's time where we me and my mates dare each other to talk to random girls in our college or out and about and he refuses every time ! , but hes the first to open his mouth and criticize others . He spends alot of his time looking around at girls and talking about how good looking they are ( he has non existing standards ) but he puts nothing into practice and for that reason he will be a virgin for evermore unless he gets lucky .

    The moral of the story is , don't be that guy in the background , the spectator on the sidelines . If you are in the game itself you will be able to make these decisions easier , as to if you really could cope with a girlfriend but there's no use thinking about it when you haven't gotten close.
 
 
 
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