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    I have almost finished college and one thing has been bugging me for a while. I have lots of mates and all (30+) but I have never had a strong friendship/relationship with females. I'm hopefully going to university soon so any advice on how to approach girls etc in general would be appreciated. I feel as if there is something missing. Thank you.
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    Starting with hello is usually helpful.
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    sometimes you need to treat them as boys, while sometimes you have to regard them as princess.....And most of times, they are like your mum - they will make you grow up...
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    Don't refer to them as 'females' for a start, it just sounds odd.
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    Maybe don't refer to them in a scientific, technical way like 'females'
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    They are just people.
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    Why not refer to them as females? We always say 'ugh men' common misconception that it might be offensive, however it would make us quite hypocritical.... Nah just kidding!

    Don't over complicate for the poor guy, one simple rule: just be honest and open. That way you know exactly what both you and the girl want.

    We aren't really complex creatures we just like to do that to confuse


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    Seriously.. just approach them as you would anyone else!

    If you have a lot of friends then you clearly have what it takes to meet and become friends with girls, maybe more

    But just be yourself. When you're not you'll get caught out and pretending to be something you're not is such a hard game to play
 
 
 
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