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    Currently back for uni for another week or so, been back since last Wednesday. Obviously I've been seeing friends from back home who aren't at my university, which includes making plans to meet some next a weeknight evening. Girlfriend (whom I spent all weekend with, as well as living with at university, rang me the other evening to ask if I want to meet her and her friends next week (on the same evening as I've planned to see friends who I don't see when I'm at university). I told her I'd like to come and meet her friends but as I've already made plans I'm not sure if I can, I'd see what I could do. Anyway, I told her this morning that I won't be able to make it and since this morning she's been extremely blunt as apparently I'd claimed I'd 100% go (absolute rubbish).

    Am I right in thinking she's being extremely petty, especially as I see her daily when at university. More of a vent more than anything as I can't really see an argument for her stance (it's not even blob week).

    anon, think she's on here.
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    Sounds to me like you're both being petty - you for complaining about something so trivial on TSR.
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    I think she's in the wrong for getting so upset about it, and (as you said) making things up.

    However, maybe you should have just said from the start that you couldn't go, and not get her hopes up. You're back from university, and you (quite rightly) want to see your friends. And of course, you made those plans first. I'm sure if you explained to her that you've already organised this with your friends, and you won't be able to, she wouldn't be so upset.
 
 
 
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