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Friend is stingy around his friends but splashes out on his gf! Watch

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    Like when we buy him dinner or drinks for example he will be like 'I'll get the next one' and always conveniently forgets to pay us back. However when we owe him money he never forgets and get scarily assertive when he wants his money....almost psychopathic.

    With his gf he spends almost all his money on her without asking her to pay for anything. He harps on about how he needs money and he cant spend even though he CAN spend on his gf and not even fairly pay for his friends.

    This guy is supposed to be my best friend...
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    Don't think I'd call that a friend m8. Forget about his gf but what sort of a friend gets scarily assertive when he's owed money but forgets when he owes?
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    Yup definetly not a great friend if he does not pay back. He's playing you guys.
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    I was going to say I have a very similar friend but he never actually gets us to pay for things. He does eat a lot of my leftovers.Anyway he doesn't annoy me but if he had me paying for things that would.

    your friend is not just stingey hes taking advantage of you
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    to be fair... you lot dont give him sex, simple really.
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    move on, i have so many friends that used me like this and now i realise its unfair and not worth it..make him PAY for himself!
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    Don't buy him food/bevvies in the future then.

    There's only a couple of people that I relax my wallet around, and that's because I know I will be repayed with a 100% certainty, exluding sudden death of any participating parties (and even then it'd probably be in their wills :lol:).
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    (Original post by Mockery)
    Don't buy him food/bevvies in the future then.
    This, OP. It's very simple.
 
 
 
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