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    I need help. I split up with my ex, we tried friends. Never worked out. Then my brother got involved with drugs, I turned to my ex because I could only trust her with it. She helped me out, and it made me realise how amazing she is. Tried to say to be friends again.

    But now she hates me. Her brother died from an overdose a couple of years ago, and she feels I involved her on purpose to mess with her head. She says she's lost all respect for me. I didn't do it on purpose at all. I turned to her because she's the only person I trusted enough to tell. But she won't believe me and I don't know what to do to fix things.
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    You should try to talk to her and explain why you involved her.
    In my experiences when you end a relationship even though it may seem hard its better to cut off all contact because it will just hurt people even more and make it harder to move on. For instance, if I had my ex on facebook it would be a constant stab if you see them dating someone else so its just easier to remove yourself from the situation and focus on what you need to do to move on
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    I've tried that, she won't answer my calls. Can only do it via text but she just has a go at me, says I got her involved purposely to hurt her, when I didn't. Asked her to forgive me for not thinking about the repercussions it has had on her, but she just ignored me. She's now blocked me on all social media, Skype, everything.

    No I get that, but too much has happened that we could ever become anything more than friends. I just want my mate back now. We started out as mates, and I want her to stop blaming me. I care about her, and she told me about her past in detail because she trusted me, and she said she doesn't trust people... yet she feels I went to her about my brother to purposely hurt het.

    At university, we're in a society together. I offered to leave, but she said no, I'm be causing drama. I don't know how we can be 'civil' together, when she pretty much said I've messed up her head she can never forgive me.

    Nothing I can do, is there?
 
 
 
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