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    Well I am the youngest of four girls (27,23,19 and me 14) Well I did really mean stuff to my eldest sister which I do regret doing. I kept accussing her husband of cheating (he wasn't but I didn't know that.) At the birth of her son her husband wasn't there till the last few minutes and I said to her "He is going to be a really bad dad" She didn't speak to me for a while after that. I sent messages and letters and everything but she didn't respond. I made up lies to get her attention but it didn't work. I was so angry I sent a really mean text and letter and now none of my sisters are speaking to me. It was my sisters birthday and I wasn't invited but my dad and step mum was and I sent a present and card. She thanked my dad but never thanked me.
    Its my birthday in a month we usually have a family meal with my sisters and my nephew should come as well as my BIL. My sisters won't come though
    I need my sisters I never knew mum. My step mum is kind but it isn't the same I need them What should I do?
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    Be honest, just talk to them, express your sorrow and tell them how much they mean to you.
    They're family, they will accept you, for who you are.
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    (Original post by awsmness)
    Be honest, just talk to them, express your sorrow and tell them how much they mean to you.
    They're family, they will accept you, for who you are.
    I already tried. I kept making stuff up like I was on my own and fell down the stairs and couldn't move so they would come over but now they don't listen because they think I am lying
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    (Original post by caoimhe!)
    I already tried. I kept making stuff up like I was on my own and fell down the stairs and couldn't move so they would come over but now they don't listen because they think I am lying
    Time is a fantastic healer of scars. All I can suggest is lay it off for a little while. Then, wait, and be at your utmost adorable form.

    Don't press on too much for a while.
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    (Original post by caoimhe!)
    Well I am the youngest of four girls (27,23,19 and me 14) Well I did really mean stuff to my eldest sister which I do regret doing. I kept accussing her husband of cheating (he wasn't but I didn't know that.) At the birth of her son her husband wasn't there till the last few minutes and I said to her "He is going to be a really bad dad" She didn't speak to me for a while after that. I sent messages and letters and everything but she didn't respond. I made up lies to get her attention but it didn't work. I was so angry I sent a really mean text and letter and now none of my sisters are speaking to me. It was my sisters birthday and I wasn't invited but my dad and step mum was and I sent a present and card. She thanked my dad but never thanked me.
    Its my birthday in a month we usually have a family meal with my sisters and my nephew should come as well as my BIL. My sisters won't come though
    I need my sisters I never knew mum. My step mum is kind but it isn't the same I need them What should I do?


    Yes you need them.
    you have done things that are wrong, you know that, you need to grow up this heart ache will help you grow up.

    Stop making up things to get attention, you are the youngest you don't need to compete for attention by making your life more interesting. They have lived through what you are going through, they will understand but they need you show you can change. They will come round but for them to forgive you and to be able to move forward you must stop lying. Keep saying sorry but most of all change and keep working on being nice, maybe start by meeting up with your BIL as an adult male he will have a completely different outlook and he may be able to suggest what you can do to repair your relationship with your eldest sister.
    good luck 14 is a period of change be honest and kind.
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    (Original post by caoimhe!)
    Well I am the youngest of four girls (27,23,19 and me 14) Well I did really mean stuff to my eldest sister which I do regret doing. I kept accussing her husband of cheating (he wasn't but I didn't know that.) At the birth of her son her husband wasn't there till the last few minutes and I said to her "He is going to be a really bad dad" She didn't speak to me for a while after that. I sent messages and letters and everything but she didn't respond. I made up lies to get her attention but it didn't work. I was so angry I sent a really mean text and letter and now none of my sisters are speaking to me. It was my sisters birthday and I wasn't invited but my dad and step mum was and I sent a present and card. She thanked my dad but never thanked me.
    Its my birthday in a month we usually have a family meal with my sisters and my nephew should come as well as my BIL. My sisters won't come though
    I need my sisters I never knew mum. My step mum is kind but it isn't the same I need them What should I do?
    Your story kinda reminded me of "Atonememt"... :rolleyes:. Good your lies didn't lead to such awful situation like in the movie.

    Course you need your sisters. I have only one, I'm 19, she's going to be 17, but she's the most importsnt person in my life and I can't imagine her not speaking to me.

    Why have you made up all these lies? Didn't you want your sister to be happy? It sounds a bit to me like you were jealous... But you're only 14, there's so much more in life waiting for you!

    For a starter, stop lying for God's sake! You made your sisters angry because of lying and now you want to get back to them with more lies? It wouldn't work for me...

    Tell them how much you're sorry. Maybe try to spend some time with your brother-in-law?

    I personally really dislike my sister's current boyfriend cause I know him and I think she deserves better. But things I know about him are true and I don't try to convince my sis to break up with him because she loves him.

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