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    Well I am the youngest of four girls (27,23,19 and me 14) Well I did really mean stuff to my eldest sister which I do regret doing. I kept accussing her husband of cheating (he wasn't but I didn't know that.) At the birth of her son her husband wasn't there till the last few minutes and I said to her "He is going to be a really bad dad" She didn't speak to me for a while after that. I sent messages and letters and everything but she didn't respond. I made up lies to get her attention but it didn't work. I was so angry I sent a really mean text and letter and now none of my sisters are speaking to me. It was my sisters birthday and I wasn't invited but my dad and step mum was and I sent a present and card. She thanked my dad but never thanked me.
    Its my birthday in a month we usually have a family meal with my sisters and my nephew should come as well as my BIL. My sisters won't come thoughhttp://static1.tsrfiles.co.uk/4.24/i...lies/frown.png
    I need my sisters I never knew mum. My step mum is kind but it isn't the same I need them What should I do?

    Can you understand why she's upset with you?

    I've got an older brother/ Sister (36,33) and we've fallen out a few times. All of them will always love you to the ends of the world so remember that. Maybe you should send a letter to all 5, (Husband + sisters) explaining what you done, explain how much you regret it and how much you need them.

    Maybe you should let them cool off for a year or so. My brother really upset me as he done something unforgivable, so I didn't talk to him for a year. I had to forgive him as he's my brother and that love is unconditional.

    Maybe if you could get one sister on side she'll persuade the others?
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