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    People will talk about having sex, without talking about how they are having sex. Which leads to a major information blackout. How do you know how kinky or boring your sex would be seen as?

    This won't change the sex I have with my partner, but we have been debating. I think our sex is pretty vanilla. My partner thinks that it's pretty deviant.

    We have experimented recently with oral and digit play on her anus. I like to suck her toes. We've been using role play and blind folds. We very occasionally do things in public, but hidden, with the risk of being caught (only after lots of drink of course). We slap each other from time to time, but never leave a mark. She scratches down my back. We've tied each other up.

    TSR, are we kinky or vanilla?
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    I'd say "kinky" but then what do I know. I've never actually had sex. Foreaveralone.jpeg
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    It's pretty tame compared to some... but there's definitely some kinkiness in there and I wouldn't say it's vanilla compared to a lot of people.

    You sound like you're both enjoying yourselves either way so keep it up! (don't excuse the pun)
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    kind of in the middle, not entirely vanilla but i wouldnt call that really kinky.

    If you enjoy it though does it really matter?
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    kind of in the middle, not entirely vanilla but i wouldnt call that really kinky.

    If you enjoy it though does it really matter?
    We both like to be right, and we both disagree, it matters but not in our sex life.
 
 
 
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