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    i'm still thinking about this girl from 6 months ago. We saw each other for about a month. Know its a bit sad but think about her a lot. She politely let me down and stopped contact with me. She also deleted me on facebook soon after. I sort of blew it with her but i cant stop thinking about how i could of done things differently so it would of worked out. I sort of embarrassed myself by messaging her drunk about a month after we stopped seeing each other as well saying that she deleted me as a friend for some reason. she never replied. it just eats me up inside how she ditched me. Its probably just an ego thing but it still bothers me. Know its not normal to feel like this about someone i didnt know for that long but it still really bothers me. The thing is i wanted to stay mates with her but she clearly didnt want to do that either. Maybe i was just a little f**k buddy for her or a fling but why didnt she want to stay friends. maybe she was seeing someone else.

    shall i try and get back in contact with her? still want to be a mate but im pretty worried about rejection if she never replied again. need some advice. i work abroad and im not home much so wouldnt have any chance of seeing her either but would like to get back in contact like i said. cheers
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    shall i try and get back in contact with her? still want to be a mate but im pretty worried about rejection if she never replied again. need some advice. i work abroad and im not home much so wouldnt have any chance of seeing her either but would like to get back in contact like i said. cheers
    No. Don't try to contact her. She's made it very clear that she doesn't want any contact with you, so leave her alone.

    Do yourself a favour and stop thinking about her. You are not in a relationship with her other than in your own head and that's not doing you any favours. Try and find someone you can have an actual relationship with.

    Read this article to try and get you headspace sorted:

    http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/lett...-doesnt-exist/

    Good luck.
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    Sad to say the prognosis for friendship is very poor. Have to move on and maybe become friends, if it still seems relevant, years down the line when the dust has settled.
 
 
 
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