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    I have a massive crush on someone at work. He does show signs of interest in me but he likes someone else who we work with better. It's bringing me down and hurting a lot. She is so attractive and beautiful. I feel very insecure and ugly when I'm around her. I don't have any else to crush on to distract my feelings either.
    I am quite sure he doesn't know how I feel about him. I found out early on how he likes the other girl so since then I've been distant and standoffish with him, which he looks confused about. But what do I do? Between me and her, there isn't even any competition. I don't stand a chance around her.
    We frequent the same club on the weekend. I was thinking about making myself look sexy, get a bit drunk and then really flirt with him. Is that a good idea? Or should I just carry on being distant? If so how do I get over it? Because being distant with him isn't helping my feelings.


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    (Original post by Future-doc)
    Considering your username, it's quite amusing to see you writing about love!!
    First person that has understood my username!


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    If you like him give it a good shot.

    Then you have tried and it just wasn't meant to be; hopefully safe in that knowledge you can move on.

    Don't feel insecure about another girl, he may just be into a different type, or she might be really flirty (likely).
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    (Original post by FranticMind)
    If you like him give it a good shot.

    Then you have tried and it just wasn't meant to be; hopefully safe in that knowledge you can move on.

    Don't feel insecure about another girl, he may just be into a different type, or she might be really flirty (likely).
    Thank you, that's true.


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    You won't know if you don't try.
 
 
 
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