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Lucyvet2006

Anonymous

You see i understand the part of being a doormat and no opinions, but whats wrong with being nice?

Nothing- being nice is... nice! but although I try to be nice to people, I certainly try not to be bitchy or judgemental (within reason)- I do joke all the time + think that some people take offense waay to easily. Some people are too scared to offend as well and will never voice their opinions. My boyfriend is a doormat compared to me because he's very emotional + gets upset if I don't call/text often enough- he's sooo nice to me sometimes he says whatever he thinks I want to hear + I don't get to hear what he really thinks. Not saying I don't like nice people (I'm not crazy!) but if the only adjective you can think up for a person is 'nice' it usually means they're boring.

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rocketboy86

im a B but i've been told women are attracted to confidence of which i have none. i'd rather be B than mr. popular sounding A

Reply 22

Thud

I'm probably B and I'd pick B as well. Loud, outgoing people have a tendency to annoy me.

But then again, my idea of a "night out" is sitting in the corner of a pub debating politics over a drink so that's probably why..... :cool:

Reply 23

rocketboy86

hey Thud - there's nothing wrong with being intellectual in a place normally associated with drunken louts.
thumbs up for beinhg different!

Reply 24

Lucyvet2006

Thud

The only people I know that would debate politics with me are definately more type A people. There are horribly annoying and ace company people in both categories!

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by-torslayshisfoe

Anonymous

Which of these people has the better personality for dating?

Person A - chatty, outgoing, witty, narcissistic, sadistic, petty

Person B - quiet, stoical, pleasant, easy going.

It depends.

Someone can be chatty but chat bull**** all the time. Someone can be outgoing but there's nothing inherently good about being fun loving all the time. Witty? I suppose people like to laugh. I hate narcissism and sadism , so I wouldn't go out with people with those traits.

Quiet people are OK sometimes, but not when you can't have a decent conversation.

'A'.

Obviously.

numero sept

Person B - quiet, stoical, pleasant, easy going.

It depends.

Someone can be chatty but chat bull**** all the time. Someone can be outgoing but there's nothing inherently good about being fun loving all the time. Witty? I suppose people like to laugh. I hate narcissism and sadism , so I wouldn't go out with people with those traits.

Quiet people are OK sometimes, but not when you can't have a decent conversation.

You don't seem to like anyone :p:

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Ron Stoppable

Anonymous

Which of these people has the better personality for dating?

Person A - chatty, outgoing, witty, narcissistic, sadistic, petty

Person B - quiet, stoical, pleasant, easy going.

If they are your options, then you are not meeting enough new people. Go meet! Become a "Hi!" machine. :smile:

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Anonymous #1

Ron Stoppable

If they are your options, then you are not meeting enough new people. Go meet! Become a "Hi!" machine. :smile:

What?

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Thud

rocketboy86

hey Thud - there's nothing wrong with being intellectual in a place normally associated with drunken louts.
thumbs up for beinhg different!

er, thanks. :smile:

Lucyvet2006

The only people I know that would debate politics with me are definately more type A people. There are horribly annoying and ace company people in both categories!

Really? I've never found that, the loud people are usually the ones getting bare-faced drunk.

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1013

I'd rather date A. How could you have a deent date with someone who is quiet and stoical, even if they are nice?

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littlemissalex

maag101

Person A. Because that's me :biggrin:

hehe i was going to say that! :biggrin:

Although i dont think im petty! (the first time i read it, i thought wow you have to be pretty to go into this category but really its petty :p:

)
Dont know if guys like that though :confused:

Clearly A

Thud

Really? I've never found that, the loud people are usually the ones getting bare-faced drunk.

I find that normally 'quiet' people are the ones who tend to get ridiculously loud when they're drinking, not the other way round...

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littlemissalex

misslibby

I find that normally 'quiet' people are the ones who tend to get ridiculously loud when they're drinking, not the other way round...

yeah same here :rolleyes:

Reply 36

Nyx

For a relationship? B all the way. They tend to have hidden depths and in the right company can become much more of an extrovert. And chances are will be more stable.
A's are fun and can be a good laugh and great company for a night out, but can get too irritating too quickly. That and narcissism and pettiness are both traits which are really, really off-putting.

Reply 37

maag101

The categories are a bit unfair though. A has more traits, and more undesirable traits, than B. If you put 2 or 3 more bad traits in there then less people would say B.

I think it's A-ist.