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    My GF has been putting off sex lately (2 months now!). Its not completely Zero, but not as much as we used to have. I asked her (while talking about other stuffs), and she simply said "would you really like it 24/7?"

    We don't have sex that much, not even 2 times a week! But sometimes, I feel like one in the morning even though we've had one that night! Is that too much sometimes?

    I like her, but this is pissing me off so much that I'm thinking to not have sex with her at all for a good while, until she realises what's going on wasn't right! Would this work? :confused:
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    Just make sure you're ringing her bell.. she's much more likely to want to have sex with her if her head explodes every time you get it on. Just think about her and definitely don't rush foreplay... Not having sex with her probably isn't the solution... You can understand why you wouldn't bother doing something if it wasn't that fun for you..

    Hoped this helped
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    (Original post by ahha)
    My GF has been putting off sex lately (2 months now!). Its not completely Zero, but not as much as we used to have. I asked her (while talking about other stuffs), and she simply said "would you really like it 24/7?"

    We don't have sex that much, not even 2 times a week! But sometimes, I feel like one in the morning even though we've had one that night! Is that too much sometimes?

    I like her, but this is pissing me off so much that I'm thinking to not have sex with her at all for a good while, until she realises what's going on wasn't right! Would this work? :confused:
    So you're pissed off with your GF because you guys aren't sleeping together as much as you'd like, and your solution to that is too sleep together even less? :confused:
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    That's not going to work. Treating it as a commodity that's given or taken away isn't going to make the idea any more appealing for her.

    Foreplay is key. But not foreplay with an end game - just have fun kissing. If it feels like you're always angling for sex then it'll annoy her so just take some time & enjoy each other for a bit until sex feels like the natural thing to do for both of you.
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    Don't play mind games with her. Openness and honesty are key, maybe try asking her why she doesn't seem to be in the mood, express how you feel. Maybe there's a genuine reason as to why she's avoiding it
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    The only way you could make her more sex hungry is by making the sex better for her. Maybe she doesn't enjoy it enough to be bothered to do it often?
 
 
 
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