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    As the title asks, was your first time having sex painful? Also, did you find it as good as people say it is? Second question: is sex more pleasurable for women or men?
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    Love is the greatest painkiller, be sure to cuddle each other straight after the sex you darn rascals
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    A little and no, it was **** (gets better with practice!).
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    Yes, it was painful, and not that enjoyable an experience, but it does get better, I promise. Once it stops hurting


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    Only a little, felt more weird than painful tbh! If you're with the right person, it certainly gets better though:^_^:
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    yes it hurt a lot, but if your with somebody whose willing to put your feelings first then its fine. it gets alot better and far more enjoyable with practise
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    Yeah it hurts and it's pretty crappy too. It does get better with time and experience though!
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    Yeah it did, it didn't stop hurting until about the 10th time, but my bf is a sweetie and really was nice about it, and now it's really fun If you're worried, make sure he knows that and also it is really nice to be with a guy you are committed to, makes a massive difference
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    Well my first time was awesome but the guy I was with was experienced so he basically just made it about me and ensured I was comfortable and that if I was sore or anything just say but I never needed to because I was fine. And do Guys or Girls enjoy it more... Hard to say cos I've never been a guy to experience it but depending on what you're doing then both genders have a great time. haha x hope this helped
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    yes it hurt, and did so for a few times after that.
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    It hurt for a few times after.
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    Didn't hurt at all and I'd say it was a great experience
    I have had a few uncomfortable experiences since though. It doesn't always go perfectly. (same partner).
    I wouldn't really know as I've never actually been a guy... but I'd say it's equally enjoyable...? Especially if you love each other very much ^.^
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    I feel quite lucky wasn't painful for me and it was pretty good (though obviously it got better). Just take it slow and I'm sure it'll be great even if it's a little painful
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    It should NOT hurt!
    I don't like how we accept that it is meant to hurt for girls, it is not

    It really shouldn't...
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    Hell yeah it hurt. And it did for a while. Takes practise to get into the swing of things.
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    No pain, no gain -girl
 
 
 
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