So everything's been fairly perfect. I met this guy, call him Steve, at a party about a month ago, and since then we've spoke quite a bit. We ended up spending quite a few nights talking until about 2am and continued meeting at social events, each time we spent a bit of time together alone just talking and it was fine and continued. Friends kept commenting on how we'd make a good couple etc and Steve's best friend, Jake, basically said he was pretty interested in me. I was interested in him too, so I was ecstatic when he asked me to meet him one evening but this is where it's all gone wrong. I texted him after thanking him for everything and that I enjoyed spending time with him, you know, as you do.. No reply. Then he just killed a conversation we had on Facebook, so I spoke to Jake because if anything it proved that i was definitely interested in him because it sort of hurt. Jake basically told me that Steve isn't used to any of this relationship stuff, and after talking to Steve, jake suggested that Steve is still interested. To make it even more confusing, Steve is initiating conversation now but keeps killing it after a while.. What's happening!? Is he not interested, is he playing hard to get, just what? I don't understand how it's happened after we met alone and nothing happened that I felt would have sparked anything off. And before anyone asks, we haven't even kissed..
Is he just not interested anymore? Watch
- Thread Starter
- 09-04-2013 02:01
- 19-04-2013 16:00
hmm, how about you suggest another date and just kiss him? would make things clearer.
- 19-04-2013 16:06
Well I guess 'steve' is not comfortable with the idea of taking it further just yet, give him time, you can still communicate as friends if you enjoy spending time with him
- 19-04-2013 16:10
Aw poor thing, same happened to me.
However i went on a date with him to nandos and i chocked on my food and he saved my life...
Im now expecting my first baby with him... i would just go for it girl