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    My friend whom I am inlove with text me last night he said:

    "pussykat i m in a badway, i'm not gonna go into detail but I may not have long left. I love you, I know that our love is special and will persist. If I am removed I want you to know that I'm watching you, remember I love you with all my heart x"

    I don't know what he means = ( I'm really scared i called him but he's not picking up and i text him this:

    "I'm really worried about you, I'd like to know what is wong, you know I am your friend; I wont judge you, I just want to be there for you, I love you x"

    I text him that two hours ago but he hasn't replied. What shall I text him? What shall I do? What did he mean when he said "I'm in a bad way" I am really worried and don't know what to do.

    Any advice would be greatly appreciated
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    If you know anyone who lives with him, or anyone who knows him at all, or if you know where he lives - I'd suggest getting them to check on him (or go yourself).
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    (Original post by Noble.)
    If you know anyone who lives with him, or anyone who knows him at all, or if you know where he lives - I'd suggest getting them to check on him (or go yourself).

    Oh okay, thanks, but I don't have their numbers = ( If I don't hear from him then I will just go visit him this friday. Hopefully i ll hear from him before then and he's okay = /
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    Has he said anything like that before?
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    Call the police?

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    (Original post by tinkerbell_xxx)
    Has he said anything like that before?

    No, he's never said anything like that before, and we didn't speak for a day before he said that..we speak everyday = /
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    If he lives near you (under an hour) I would run to him. Idk, it sounds kind of suicidal to me. :/
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    (Original post by TaylorGang_4)
    Call the police?

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    But why? I guess I shouldn't have phrased the question like that; I am not scared of him, I m worried about what is wrong with him like an illness or if he is being suicidal
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    (Original post by lolabunnyXx)
    Oh okay, thanks, but I don't have their numbers = ( If I don't hear from him then I will just go visit him this friday. Hopefully i ll hear from him before then and he's okay = /
    Friday? If someone who meant a lot to me (or anyone for that matter) sent me a text like that, I'd go to them as soon as physically possible.
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    He may be in danger? I interpreted you correctly. Don't wait, do something now.because you'll regret if anything happens to him.

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    (Original post by eggfriedrice)
    If he lives near you (under an hour) I would run to him. Idk, it sounds kind of suicidal to me. :/
    He lives three hours away from me. I will see him on friday though = ( I rang him again and text him but no answer : (
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    (Original post by lolabunnyXx)
    No, he's never said anything like that before, and we didn't speak for a day before he said that..we speak everyday = /
    It does sound a bit concerning :/ keep trying to contact him in any way possible or try to get hold of a friend of his to see if they know anything!
    Hope he's ok xx
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    (Original post by tinkerbell_xxx)
    It does sound a bit concerning :/ keep trying to contact him in any way possible or try to get hold of a friend of his to see if they know anything!
    Hope he's ok xx
    Thank you xx I just got his fathers number from his ex, found out he is really ill : ( i hope its nothing serious, i just wish he would answer the phone
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    (Original post by TaylorGang_4)
    He may be in danger? I interpreted you correctly. Don't wait, do something now.because you'll regret if anything happens to him.

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    Oh, you are right : ( I have found out he is ill, I still dont know what is wrong with him I just wish he would speak to me and let me be there for him = ( but maybe it is better if i leave him alone?
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    i suppose he has cancer?
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    (Original post by Sockpirate)
    Friday? If someone who meant a lot to me (or anyone for that matter) sent me a text like that, I'd go to them as soon as physically possible.
    He lives three hours away from me i will go and see whats wrong thursday evening that is as soon as possible i can : ( I m also worried he might prefer to be alone do you think?
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    (Original post by zedeneye1)
    i suppose he has cancer?
    Was there really a need for this? It is in no way helping the OP.

    I hope your friend gets well soon! :hugs:
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    (Original post by lolabunnyXx)
    Oh, you are right : ( I have found out he is ill, I still dont know what is wrong with him I just wish he would speak to me and let me be there for him = ( but maybe it is better if i leave him alone?
    I'm sorry to hear that, hope it's nothing serious. If you really care about him, you should try to find out what's wrong, you're entitled to that.
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    (Original post by lolabunnyXx)
    Thank you xx I just got his fathers number from his ex, found out he is really ill : ( i hope its nothing serious, i just wish he would answer the phone
    oh nooo Good luck xox
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    Update - my friend is doing fine, he was feeling very low though. all is good now. Thank you for all who supported me with this xo
 
 
 
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