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What does your boyfriend/girlfriend say when you ask them "Why do you like/love me?" watch

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    Basically just as the title says. Just curious.
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    I wasn't aware this was a question people actually asked...
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    For our anniversary I got a nice book of reasons, so cute.

    But, and I don't know if this a guy thing, if I was asked that question straight, I'd struggle to answer. It sounds dumb but I'd say "well because I do", it's hard to sum up 2+ years. If I had time to think about it and write stuff then yeah sure, but not on the spur of the moment, I'd just say something dumb sounding as said.
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    Anon as got class mates on here.

    Never asked her directly but she has said in the past it's because I am very special and unique. I replied saying I know
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    'Because you said yes'
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    God I hate this question but I love hearing my boyfriend answer it so I can't have it both ways.

    I talk about his looks and qualities and cute/good/nice/kind things he has done for me and other people.
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    'Because your sister was already taken' doesn't generally go down well.
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    For our three-year anniversary, he wrote a letter which had a rather long list. It included the usual stuff you'd say and also included stuff like our routines (for we have many, far more than I realised we did), quirks about me etc.

    Soppy whatsit :')
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    First time had 'because you don't seem have the bad qualities other girls do, that or you hide them really well and I respect that', more recently though he said 'because you're what I always imagined a woman should be like'.
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    'Because you're hot'
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    Because of your massive rod
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    I don't have a girlfriend. :sad:
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    It's a great question to ask if you want to make the guy panic however it also depends on the context. Casually asking over dinner is fine but i imagine many people are asking for validation.

    Perhaps paradoxically i could tell somebody why i love myself much more easily than why i love another person.
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    I just asked my boyfriend and his reply was "dat ass"
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    He says nothing. Why? Because he is a cardboard cut out and therefore cannot speak
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    Maybe I'm way too logical ha ha. I'd actually start listing off all the the traits and qualities that I love about them ha ha. E.g I love how you make sure everyone feels included when your with your friends, I love your dimples ect..
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    I don't actually ask this question? I assumes he loves me because i'm...me?
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    (Original post by joey11223)
    For our anniversary I got a nice book of reasons, so cute.

    But, and I don't know if this a guy thing, if I was asked that question straight, I'd struggle to answer. It sounds dumb but I'd say "well because I do", it's hard to sum up 2+ years. If I had time to think about it and write stuff then yeah sure, but not on the spur of the moment, I'd just say something dumb sounding as said.
    Yeah, when I ask my boyfriend, all he can say is "Because you're amazing", but in anniversary cards he fills up the card with things he loves about me. But when I'm asked I can pretty much give a detailed list on the spot.
    Must be a guy thing.
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    (Original post by veggie4life)
    I don't actually ask this question? I assumes he loves me because i'm...me?
    Well yes, I'd assume my boyfriend would love me because I'm me too.
    However, I view myself in a certain way, and could assume that he loves me for all the things I like about myself, but he might not see me in the same way as I see myself.
    If you understand what I'm trying to say.
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    Because I can't have sex with boys. And once a relationship is established it's much easier to initiate sex. Hence why.


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