Last week I went for lunch with a mate, who is quite a bit younger than me and we don't meet up much, yet unbeknown to me he actually brought along one of his own mates!
Now, I think I would have preferred it had it just been me and my mate, as I didn't know the other guy. But ultimately I guess it doesn't matter much.
However, I am now paranoid as to why my mate brought along someone else. Was it more likely because:
1. He is trying to open up towards me and introduce me to his own good friends to further our own friendship (in which case I should consider that a huge compliment)
2. He is simply unwilling to me up with alone because he thinks I am a bit weird/socially awkward, so brought his friend along to make things easier (in which case I am hugely embarrassed)
Which is more likely? I really fear it's the latter.
Why did my mate do this? Watch
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- 11-04-2013 15:12
- 11-04-2013 15:19
Maybe he already told you he would meet with you and had made plan with his other friend so thought he'd take him along.
Or maybe, this friend was interested in meeting you so came along for that reason. It could even be that they bumped into each other and he invited him along for the sake of it.
Don't read to much into things OP, its probably nothing bad.
- 11-04-2013 18:10
To be honest, if it was #2 surely he would have just cancelled? I definitely think if he thought you were weird then he'd not meet up with you at all, he'd also be a bit embarrassed surely to introduce a friend to someone he thought was weird? I'd be a bit freaked out if my friend said "hey I want to meet up with my friend, but he's a bit weird and I don't want to be alone with him, will you come?"
I think you're reading into it way too much, he probably just bumped into him or made double plans and felt too guilty to cancel on either of you.
- 11-04-2013 18:15
I think it's a mix of both options. So you're probably slightly awkward but seeing as he didn't cancel, also totally worth it! I wouldn't think too much into it.