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    I'm in a long-distance relationship and I know that with that comes the need to trust your partner completely, just to clear up straight away that I do trust my partner and know he is faithful and loyal etc etc.

    The issue comes with this one girl who constantly flirts with him on Facebook, asks him incessantly how "far" we've gone together and overall acts as though she has no respect for our relationship at all, making sexual remarks and insinuating things, even offering intimate things such as "cuddles" and "back rubs".

    I've been with my boyfriend a fairly long time and ever since the beginning this girl has been acting this way. I've mentioned/hinted to him a lot of times that I dislike this girl's attitude towards him and even once ended up in tears to him about her.

    The thing is that she goes to his college and sees him every day - where as I, obviously, do not. I know that this resentment of this girl is probably based on jealous as well as the fact that she's out of line but I really could use some advice on how to get over this because it's the only thing about our relationship that genuinely gets me down a lot; to the point where if he's going out I'll really want him not to JUST because she'll be there and I'm so scared she'll try something.

    Help please? Thanks.
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    Ask your boyfriend to have a word with her. Tell him how you feel and hopefully he'll put his foot down.
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    Ask your boyfriend to have a word with her. Tell him how you feel and hopefully he'll put his foot down.
    He's not really the type to confront people, plus he's been at school with her/friends with her since primary, I feel intrusive trying to get him to have little or nothing to do with her. I need a way to tell him (I've already tried explaining how she makes me feel) that shows him how much I hate this girl.

    So tricky
 
 
 
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