So basically i know this girl who fits almost every category of attraction I set when looking for someone, and I think it's relatively obvious she likes me... but it's just I have no desire... certain things about her annoy me but overall she's pretty great, and I could care less... I sorta feel like a **** but well....
So just wondered if anyone else has the opportunity to date someone who fits their standards, but just doesn't feel any particular desire for them and why?
Just no desire.... Watch
- Thread Starter
- 12-04-2013 04:24
- 12-04-2013 04:27
If you don't really want to go out with someone then don't go out with them. Simple, no? You don't have to have highly developed reasons, or submit paperwork in triplicate to the ECJ, you don't really like them and that should be enough.
- 12-04-2013 08:58
Well as corny as it sounds attraction is 'more than just a physical thing, its more than just a nice pair a tits' (dan le sac vs scroobius pip- tommy C)
So its likely personality wise the visually 'ideal' person may fall short and so you may feel no real attraction or spark.