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    ANON - As I know people here.

    I was clubbing last night and I locked eyes with this one girl and I got all nervous immediately and didnt actually approach her for a while, needless to say i carried on doing my thing trying to dance with other girls, all fairly easy confident stuff, but for some reason I couldnt approach this girl.

    Yet when I finally did approach her I crashed and burned. Now the next morning I just cannot stop thinking about her, just keep playing it over and over in my head. Yet I know I wont see her ever again.

    I think my confidence may have taken a slight knock as I was getting loads of numbers and kisses which, me being ever so slightly over-confident for once in my life, just let them slide as I thought I could get someone better, there she was and I ****ed it up.

    It just seems so easy for everyone else, I look all over in the clubs that I go to and it just seems so easy for other guys to pull, yet theres me trying to pull, and while it works most of the time, (being confident and not giving a ****) the times that I want something to go right for a girl that I REALLY like i fall back into 'mr nice guy' i approached her and i my mind went blank so i just said 'I think your really pretty' and we had some small talk I could feel it weren't going well so i walked away.

    Any advice on how to not let my confidence slip when talking to the girls that I really find attractive, and are my type down to a tee? I just couldnt do it for some reason, most of the time its like, she's fit, and I approach there and then, no give up, just approach. With her I couldnt do it. I had to wait a while and egg myself on.

    Any tips that anyone can give me to re-boost my confidence or why my confidence has taken a slight knock? Ive come a long way and I dont really want to lose my confidence and have to start all over again.
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    Ever heard the phrase 'Quit whilst you're ahead'? :laugh:
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    (Original post by PoGo HoPz)
    Ever heard the phrase 'Quit whilst you're ahead'? :laugh:
    lol What I meant to say was in previous weeks I got loads of numbers. I struck out last night! haha
 
 
 
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