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mattyboi2k8
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Hey,

Basically I met this girl through a guyfreind of mine who used to go to my school ( but now goes to a different college) and we get on amazingly well and have acknowledged we have feelings for each other.

But about two nights ago.....my guyfreind told me that he fancies the same girl, and was asking me for advice, I said I didnt know what to do.
But its makign things really difficult for me, the girl says she don't fancy him and I trust her, but its still so difficult!

What do I do?

PLease help.
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ive been in a similar situation.

So she knows you like her right?
And shes told you she likes you?
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You need to tell the guy that you and this girl already kind of have a thing going on and that he should let you go for it and not stand in your way. In my experience, guys deal with stuff better than if a 2 girls are after the same guy. If he's an alright bloke, I'm sure he'll understand.
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The point is if shes told you she likes you, you need to trust her.
If anythings gona come of it you need to trust her.

But still, that doesnt mean sit around and do nothing. Make it more clear what/if your intentions are, to her and your friend.
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ive been in a similar situation.

So she knows you like her right?
And shes told you she likes you?

Yes 100000000000000000000000000%
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then theres nothing really to worry about

Unless she doesnt really mean what she says (in which case its not worth getting serious with her and getting hurt over it anyway) shes hardly gona run off with your friend is she?

So just make sure your intentions are known. All u need to do.
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But she is worried that she will loose the freind over it, because they are friends.
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well if hes at all decent then it shouldnt be a problem.
At the end of the day u gota choose - friend or girl.
I dont even need to guess which one you wana go for.

But then these things happen. If i were in your situation an i really liked her enough i would just go for it and see how things turned out.
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At the end of the day u gota choose - friend or girl.
I dont even need to guess which one you wana go for
Well he is less my freind and more her freind now, since he goes to a different college.
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Play noughts and crosses with him, and on the squares, write:
BUG
GER
OFF

He'll get the idea.
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bro's over ho's

no wait not this time.

He may like her but she likes you so you have nothing to worry about. Tell the girl that you are gunna talk to the guy in a nice way. Invite him out for a drink and just say explain

"i know you said u like *insert girls name* and i should have explained this before but we already like each other. I have spoke to her and she feels the same, i just wanted to sit down and talk to you about it as your a good friend and i don't want to fall out over this"

if he is a nice guy he will understand. he may go a bit weird at first with you but im sure he will get over it.

Good luck and go for it.
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That could work!

But apparently she wants to talk to him.
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