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    This is going to be a weird post and I'm going to seem like an extremely negative person but please disregard that.

    I'm currently talking to a boy who I really, really like. I know he likes me too, but I can't help but be scared that he's eventually gonna reject me or lose interest. This all stems from my last relationship where I was with a boy who lost interest and rejected me, then got bored, asked me back out, then lost interest again and dumped me again, (because he wasn't "ready", he should have known that before he got with me twice). Anyway I find it really hard to cope with and even though things are going really well I cry at night for no reason, just because I have this feeling that things just won't go well for me and something bad has to happen.

    I dunno if this is normal, I don't think it is but I just don't know what to do. It seems not looking for a relationship might be the best idea for me but then I'm the sort of person who when they are single are always on the look out, I'm so desperate for love, and now I'm attached to this boy I couldn't cut things off. I dunno if there's anything I can really do but writing this and getting it off my chest seems like it can help. I dunno if anyone has been through anything similar? I know it's really weird but I dunno talking about it might help
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    This is going to be a weird post and I'm going to seem like an extremely negative person but please disregard that.

    I'm currently talking to a boy who I really, really like. I know he likes me too, but I can't help but be scared that he's eventually gonna reject me or lose interest. This all stems from my last relationship where I was with a boy who lost interest and rejected me, then got bored, asked me back out, then lost interest again and dumped me again, (because he wasn't "ready", he should have known that before he got with me twice). Anyway I find it really hard to cope with and even though things are going really well I cry at night for no reason, just because I have this feeling that things just won't go well for me and something bad has to happen.

    I dunno if this is normal, I don't think it is but I just don't know what to do. It seems not looking for a relationship might be the best idea for me but then I'm the sort of person who when they are single are always on the look out, I'm so desperate for love, and now I'm attached to this boy I couldn't cut things off. I dunno if there's anything I can really do but writing this and getting it off my chest seems like it can help. I dunno if anyone has been through anything similar? I know it's really weird but I dunno talking about it might help
    As much of a cliche as it sounds - you find love when you're not looking for it
    You don't say how old you are but if you're only young maybe enjoy being single and if something happens with this guy it happens - don't try and force it There would be no point you getting into a relationship with this guy if you were to spend all of your time with him being worried about him leaving you
    Just because one guy didn't treat you right doesn't mean that they are all the same
    Give him a chance to prove you wrong and if it doesn't happen then enjoy singledom for a bit It can be massively underrated from what I hear
 
 
 
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