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    My GF doesn't seem serious at all, and is always busy with her stuffs and friends. I'm out with my friends and do my things too, but I'm always thinking about her and wishing she was with me.

    I really don't want to get serious her anymore, coz I've started to feel she's not the one. So I want to be less serious on this relationship and let it continue until we decide to end it.

    How can I do this, and be less serious about her?

    Should I start giving her less time, seeing her less, talking to her less?
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    inb4 break up
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    Or you could talk to her?

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    I've been there a few times. Personally, when I realise that they aren't in to it as much as I am; I just let things fade out. I don't want to end up feeling emotionally attached to someone who isn't.
    Sure; you could try to stay with her (for the sex) until something better comes along, but I think you have to be a certain type of person to pull that off. The fact that you're on here asking for advice makes me think that you probably aren't.
 
 
 
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