Little peeved about my boyfriend. He's more spontaneous than me so doesnt really set plans. I was going to see him yesterday after band practice which finished at 4 but he rang up before it and said if it was okay he hung out with one of his friends (also in the band) after practice. I said it was fine cos I saw him all day friday when we both had a day off. As he had a day off today he said he'd come round in the morning before I had work so we could hang out. It got to like half 11 when he text me and said that time ran away from him and would I be annoyed if I saw him after work instead. I am a little annoyed because I feel like an afterthought with him ever since this friend got back in touch with him.
I told him I was annoyed and he was sorry and that he was trying to keep everyone happy but doing a bad job of it. He just text me saying he felt really bad but I don't know what to say, there isn't really anything to say. It's not a massive thing thats happened at all but i'm allowed to be a little annoyed since he has a tendency to make plans and change them last minute with me and it's happened more and more recently. I'm seeing him after work but I'm not all that enthusiastic about it anymore. I feel like his text is just a way to get sympathy out of me when I haven't done anything wrong.
Anyone have any opinions on the matter? :/ we've been together for 16 months.
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- Thread Starter
- 15-04-2013 14:11
- 15-04-2013 14:38
Well it sometimes is difficult to manage a social/work life and a relationship, you'll need to talk to him as something will give eventually. That being said, you've been together for 16 months, so it shows that your relationship is working. Just talk to him, see if he can schedule time dedicated to you both, without any friends or interruptions.